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Youzealie: 10 Most Common Lies People Tell in A Relationship

While honesty is a virtue and the cornerstone of a long-lasting relationship (assuming everybody involves knows what a daddy is…ZING!), the fact is most people in relationships tell eachother lies. Now, I’m not talking about huge “It’s your baby!/I don’t even know Tiger Woods” style lies, but more little white lies intended to keep the sanity, peace, and faith.

Why did I say faith? Well because as soon as I wrote the words “keep the…”, Michael Jackson’s song “Keep The Faith” (from the Dangerous LP)popped into my head, and I figured, if you’re going to keep something, as say a keepsake, you know, for the sake of keeping something, faith is definitely up there as one of those “good things” Beyoncé really likes, to keep, which must be why Michael Jackson so eloquently sang about it before he found his faith. No Conrad.

Hope he kept it.

Huzzah.

1. You always hit my spot just right.

Yeah, okay. You’re right. Except really, sex is like Any Given Sunday. Sometimes,  you have a bad day (I’m looking at you Patriots) and hitting her spot is more difficult than Stevie Wonder reading an eye-chart. But she’s really nice if she tells you this knowing full well she had to finish the job herself AND convince you that you’re the man. That’s a good lie.

2. I love your mother (parents).

While I do actually love my girl’s mother, I know MORE than my fair share of people who feel otherwise. Thing is, is it really worth it to say that “I think your mother is a worthless hag who smokes more Jimmy Dean? And by the way, she smells like hot arse sometimes, tell her to Summer’s Eve that pocket!” I’m gonna say, no. At least you ain’t got Martin’s momma. Her biscuits (no buttocks) were supposed to be slammin’ though.

Speaking of biscuits…

3. You’re cooking tastes almost like my mothers.

While I would never say this to anybody, I heard my boy tell his girl this about a year ago. He knew he was lying when he said it. I tasted his girl’s food. If her mother cooked like that, she’d be dead.

4. You’re the only man/woman I ever loved.

Your pants are SO on fire, paco. I remember when you used to date Big Booty Judy from SW and you used to feed her oysters. And that time you all dressed alike, and you were 22. THAT was love. Anddon’t get me started on women telling that lie. If she’s over age 22, you are DEFINITELY not the only man she’s loved.

You might be her first experimentation with The Art of Dome, but definitely not love.

Hmm…

5. I’ve never done that before.

Saying you’ve never done that before usually means you’ve done it before but you just like to pretend that you didn’t do it before because if folks knew how many times you really did it, they might not want you to do it to them. Or at least they’d ask for some test results first.

6. I don’t know him/her.

Youzealie. You used to play Naked Twister every Tuesday in your less reformed days. Or better yet, “oh you meant HIM! Oh, yeah, I thought you meant the guy with the ‘Homeless Vet’ sign standing 200 feet away from the guy I know. Um, yeah, we used to date a little.”

Hell…

7. We used to date, a little.

What does that even mean? I know we like to downplay stuff, but really, what does that mean? By the way, that’s a chick line. A guy would deny, deny, deny like he was R. Kelly and you had a sex tape that included three penguins and a pet goat named Miley.

8. I love going to the opera.

We often lie about things we hate doing. This is how we end up doing a lot of things we hate doing. Like going to the opera. Or sitting through a talk given by Michael Eric Dyson – which I assume is akin to Hell.

9. You’re the first thing I think about in the morning.

Well, you in a sense, I suppose. But I’m guessing its you on-top or underneath. Eyes optional.

10. I love you.

Heh heh heh.

What are some other little white lies that we tell in relationships? Share. And make sure your significant other isn’t reading today or doesn’t know who you are.

And put some stank on it.

-VSB P aka THE ARSONIST aka TANGLE JIG P aka GIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIRL, HE A 3

PS And check me out over on Guyspeak.com as I answer some of the funnest (yes funnest) and strangest questions known to mankind…daily. Yes, Panama writes over there daily.

Panama Jackson

Panama Jackson is pretty fly for a light guy. He used to ship his frito to Tito in the District, but shipping prices increased so he moved there to save money. When he's not saving humanity with his words or making music with his mouth, you can find him at your mama's mama's house drinking her fine liquors. Most importantly, he believes the children are our future.

  • Pink Luck

    My lie of all lies was : No, I didn’t sleep with any co-workers.

    (and hey, I’m a cop – it’s like being in the military – it happens)

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      @Pink Luck, wait, you were actually asked that question, straight up?

      only way i see that coming up is if it comes out that you got down with one, then all of a sudden the little curiosity bug kicks in on some…”wait..how many coworkers DID you sleep with?”

      • Leila

        @Panama Jackson, lol! I was wondering how that would come up…

      • Leila

        @Panama Jackson, lol! I was wondering how that would come up…

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      @Pink Luck, wait, you were actually asked that question, straight up?

      only way i see that coming up is if it comes out that you got down with one, then all of a sudden the little curiosity bug kicks in on some…”wait..how many coworkers DID you sleep with?”

  • Pink Luck

    My lie of all lies was : No, I didn’t sleep with any co-workers.

    (and hey, I’m a cop – it’s like being in the military – it happens)

  • Ivyette

    1.Awww…baby, you bought me perfume. I love White Diamonds perfume!

    I think that ish smells like roach spray and warm garbage. And I ALWAYS know when a woman has it on. Ugh!

    2. Your sisters (or mother, for some) seem pretty cool.

    Sike! Them never-been-kissed-mean-faced-mouth twistin’ chicks don’t like me and the feeling is mutual. But I’ll try not to let on just how much I can’t stand ’em. ;)

    • charli skipper

      @Ivyette,

      oh, not the white diamonds. i’ve always heard people talking about how good white diamonds smells and how nice it is, so i got some. um…….i forgot to notice that all the people saying that were OLD people. that shat smells like depression and medicare.

      • missjess

        @charli skipper,
        *dead* @ “depression and medicare”

      • missjess

        @charli skipper,
        *dead* @ “depression and medicare”

      • Ivyette

        @charli skipper,

        that shat smells like depression and medicare.

        Cosign. Ever notice how only women 55+ wear that stuff? They are the only reason behind those Liz Taylor commercials that have fuzzy glow.

      • Ivyette

        @charli skipper,

        that shat smells like depression and medicare.

        Cosign. Ever notice how only women 55+ wear that stuff? They are the only reason behind those Liz Taylor commercials that have fuzzy glow.

      • http://presidentialtelevisionandfilm.ning.com Monk

        @charli skipper,

        Ha! My mom wears White Diamond…lol!!

        • http://www.sistersoundoff.blogspot.com Cheekie

          @Monk,

          It’s a “mom” smell. My mama used to rock that as well. It smells…mature. Frankly, it smells like Elizabeth Taylor. I sprayed some on when I was like in eighth grade and became a member of AARP immediately.

          That was wrong.

          I’m sorry, Mama.

          • Me fail english?

            @Cheekie,

            Dead@ u knowing wut Liz Taylor smells like.

            Between this and your hatred of Snuggies comment you must be tryna kill me!

          • Me fail english?

            @Cheekie,

            Dead@ u knowing wut Liz Taylor smells like.

            Between this and your hatred of Snuggies comment you must be tryna kill me!

        • http://www.sistersoundoff.blogspot.com Cheekie

          @Monk,

          It’s a “mom” smell. My mama used to rock that as well. It smells…mature. Frankly, it smells like Elizabeth Taylor. I sprayed some on when I was like in eighth grade and became a member of AARP immediately.

          That was wrong.

          I’m sorry, Mama.

      • http://presidentialtelevisionandfilm.ning.com Monk

        @charli skipper,

        Ha! My mom wears White Diamond…lol!!

    • charli skipper

      @Ivyette,

      oh, not the white diamonds. i’ve always heard people talking about how good white diamonds smells and how nice it is, so i got some. um…….i forgot to notice that all the people saying that were OLD people. that shat smells like depression and medicare.

    • miss t-lee

      @Ivyette,
      “Awww…baby, you bought me perfume. I love White Diamonds perfume!”

      LMAO!!!! If someone gave me White Diamonds, it would be promptly returned, or re-gifted, but never worn!!!! That ish is terrible.

    • miss t-lee

      @Ivyette,
      “Awww…baby, you bought me perfume. I love White Diamonds perfume!”

      LMAO!!!! If someone gave me White Diamonds, it would be promptly returned, or re-gifted, but never worn!!!! That ish is terrible.

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      @Ivyette, I think that ish smells like roach spray and warm garbage.

      this is what i envisioned Britney Spears perfume smelled like.

      • sxyscientst

        @Panama Jackson, thats EXACTLY what B.Spears’ “perfume” smells like

      • sxyscientst

        @Panama Jackson, thats EXACTLY what B.Spears’ “perfume” smells like

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      @Ivyette, I think that ish smells like roach spray and warm garbage.

      this is what i envisioned Britney Spears perfume smelled like.

  • Ivyette

    1.Awww…baby, you bought me perfume. I love White Diamonds perfume!

    I think that ish smells like roach spray and warm garbage. And I ALWAYS know when a woman has it on. Ugh!

    2. Your sisters (or mother, for some) seem pretty cool.

    Sike! Them never-been-kissed-mean-faced-mouth twistin’ chicks don’t like me and the feeling is mutual. But I’ll try not to let on just how much I can’t stand ’em. ;)

  • http://www.shay-d-lady.com shay-d-lady

    I love this “enter article of clothing you would never ever buy”

    NO I dont mind the morning breathe.. I just have a crook in my neck!

    Yeah I love it when you put your tongue in my ear!

    Of course I want to go to church with your momma’ nem

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      @shay-d-lady, girl…you stay lyin. stop that.

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      @shay-d-lady, girl…you stay lyin. stop that.

  • http://www.shay-d-lady.com shay-d-lady

    I love this “enter article of clothing you would never ever buy”

    NO I dont mind the morning breathe.. I just have a crook in my neck!

    Yeah I love it when you put your tongue in my ear!

    Of course I want to go to church with your momma’ nem

  • Satya

    lol @ “Yeah I love it when you put your tongue in my ear!”
    I HATE THAT!!!!

    • Tahirah

      @Satya, I hate the tongue in the ear thing too…truth is i dont let the guy kno that

      • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

        @Tahirah, must not hate it too much then. last time a chick tried to get close to my ear and i didn’t want them there, i swatted her ass with my shoe.

      • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

        @Tahirah, must not hate it too much then. last time a chick tried to get close to my ear and i didn’t want them there, i swatted her ass with my shoe.

    • Tahirah

      @Satya, I hate the tongue in the ear thing too…truth is i dont let the guy kno that

    • http://www.sistersoundoff.blogspot.com Cheekie

      @Satya,

      I KNOW! A dude asked me to do that to him as a form of goodbye. Like, not a hug or kiss. But tongue in your Madame Toussauds arse ear. I shoulda directed him to the nearest Walgreens so he can pick up some Q-Tips. I just opted for “helll naaaaw”. But the prior response woulda been more brilliant. I was drunk, though.

      • IJstDntUnderstand

        @Cheekie, LMFAO at that strange goodbye request…I hope you kept it moving after that…that’s just strange..yeah that’s all I have to say about that (said in Forest Gump voice)

      • IJstDntUnderstand

        @Cheekie, LMFAO at that strange goodbye request…I hope you kept it moving after that…that’s just strange..yeah that’s all I have to say about that (said in Forest Gump voice)

    • http://www.sistersoundoff.blogspot.com Cheekie

      @Satya,

      I KNOW! A dude asked me to do that to him as a form of goodbye. Like, not a hug or kiss. But tongue in your Madame Toussauds arse ear. I shoulda directed him to the nearest Walgreens so he can pick up some Q-Tips. I just opted for “helll naaaaw”. But the prior response woulda been more brilliant. I was drunk, though.

  • Satya

    lol @ “Yeah I love it when you put your tongue in my ear!”
    I HATE THAT!!!!

  • Made In Hawaii

    “I’m listening.”

    …the hell you are, boy.

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      @Made In Hawaii, i think you got that one mistaken. you see, we are definitely listening, we just don’t hear what you’re saying b/c you seem to always be talking but rarely saying anything.

      you have conditioned us.

      • Big_D

        @Panama Jackson,

        CO-SIGN & CO-SIGN!!!!! Then she gets mad when the conditioning works! If you don’t want it, don’t do it.

        Sorry, that means you know what you want (shock & awe).

      • Big_D

        @Panama Jackson,

        CO-SIGN & CO-SIGN!!!!! Then she gets mad when the conditioning works! If you don’t want it, don’t do it.

        Sorry, that means you know what you want (shock & awe).

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      @Made In Hawaii, i think you got that one mistaken. you see, we are definitely listening, we just don’t hear what you’re saying b/c you seem to always be talking but rarely saying anything.

      you have conditioned us.

  • Made In Hawaii

    “I’m listening.”

    …the hell you are, boy.

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