Urgent Like A Muhf***a: Best Places To Meet Other VSBs and VSSs (Or People Who Read Good)

The VSB BBQ is the unicorn heard around the reading Black person’s world. While that might be a hyperbolic statement, one of the reasons that so many people venture here daily is that we’ve amassed a community of likeminded individuals with common interests and an unbridled belief in education. Yes, everybody here loves pr0n, Rick Ross, and street knowledge. But we also love Janelle Monae, volunteer work, and the Black community. It’s a dichotomy that only Bill Clinton and Tupac Shakur could fully understand and embrace.

And Puffy. He went to Howard for a few years. I hear that’s what they do at Howard.

Over the course of the past two years one of the common threads of our common threads – no Alexander McQueen – was this desire to find out where to meet other likeminded people in our respective cities. Admittedly it can be hard. We all judge books by their covers and how do you know somebody is like you unless you spend actual time talking to them and hanging. And let’s not even talk about how much women hate each other on site.

And awkward? Have you ever SEEN two men attempt to become friends. It’s like watching a piranha trying to play with a porcupine after a hurricane in August 2005 after the levees break. If that makes any sense to you, please put the weed down.

Anyway, I figured that perhaps its time to enlighten the masses on where exactly to find other people like ourselves. Sure that sounds pretentious, but that Bishop Eddie Long (still trying to decide if I want to write about that) story sounds like a straight up shakedown to me but that doesn’t stop CNN from running with it. I know my people. I am everyday people.

SPEECH.

1) Poetry slam

I went to a poetry slam this past evening and as I looked over the crowd of mostly 20 – to 30-something pseudo professionals and professional college students I realized that this crowd is the very one that would more than likely read. Without prodding. And books too. Poetry slams are rife with people who are full of contradictions since by definition the best poets are the ones who are self aware enough to be able to analyze themselves honestly and openly. Plus, after the joint, I handed out my card to this chick who said, “folks STAY sending me to this website.” Game.Set.Match.

2) Kanye West concerts/cover band shows/listening parties

Namely anywhere that Kanye West is present. You see, like him or not, Kanye is the representative for our generation, whatever generation it is. He says everything and nothing at all at the exact same time. He dresses like a 12 year old little girl who wants to be a little boy but makes good music. He’s the most relevant artist we have today and people think he reads books. Therefore, we listen to him too. There’s no rhyme or reason to Kanye West’s appeal to the young professional set, it just exists. He’s like a Herpes outbreak – lays latent until the heat shows up and then he’s everywhere. And for some reason, we can’t get enough.

3) Open mics

Like the poetry slam. open mics are full of passionate malcontents who’s lives are full of great decisions that we’re not happy with. But we’re living the good life and nothing can stop us now, we’re on the move. People who read go to open mics because that’s what people who read do. Or at least while the weather’s nice outside. You can find people just like the very folks who frequent this site at open mics. Not on the mic. But sitting in the crowd trying to listen and shushing you. Slow down sailor, holler after the show.

4) Neo-soul shows

I don’t know why the reading set loves Chrisette Michele and Bilal so much but they do. But the one place you can find any and everybody? A Maxwell show. Unfortunately Maxwell thinks he’s a martian so he only comes out on Tuesdays and off months.

5) VSB Happy Hours

Coming soon to a city near you. Or not. Either way we love the kids like Trick Daddy.

This is public service week here at VSB, for those of you who know the very people everybody else is looking to meet, where is the best place to find people who read?

Heal the world and make it a better place.

-VSB P aka THE ARSONIST aka TANGLE JIG P aka VITAMIN P aka 40 P aka GIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIRL, HE A 3

  • ComicBookGuy

    Umm… Where is everyone?

    • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

      Probably off listening to Lyfe Jenning’s album in his honor.

      • http://twitter.com/naimafiasco TheTalentedMs.Fiasco

        Yo…why does everyone even like him?

        • Mo (VSS)

          @Talented…

          Say it! Why do people like him? I know he had substance and whatnot, but it’s just something about Lyfe that I cannot get with. No disrespect to those who can though.

          *shrugs…I guess we’ll all have a break from him for 3 years.

      • 90sgagirl

        smh..isn’t he being a “Statistic” right now..back to jail over some babymama/highspeed chase drama…when will he & T.I. learn.?

        • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

          Exactly.

          • Caballeroso

            Decided to show off your “other” cheeks, eh? :)

            • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

              LOL, just a little bit. I’m also holding up a tre-piece sign for a special someone (o_O), but the dark won’t let me be great. Might have to re-do it when I’m bored again.

              • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

                Oh, another thing no one can’t see (especially my squinty eyes). I’m wearing my VSB tee! NOT the new one that I’m supposed to have right now. Hmph.

                Hmph deez?

    • http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=41000895 HR_maggedon

      I know right??? ….and furthermore…. why is this VSB/VSS BBQ a unicorn…. we could do that ish….

      and if we are talking about mythical creatures, i’d prefer it to be centaur…. at least you can talk to it.

    • http://www.awordorthree.com Crystal Marie

      Where is everyone? Off somewhere complaining about the rude comments he made about Howard.

      Howard is awesome! See here —> http://www.awordorthree.com/2010/08/why-i-chose-hbcu.html

  • Shay

    I spend so much time in the library these days I wonder why I even bother to pay rent.

    • JessicaL

      Lol, I thought I was the only one. I stay in Borders too because you can get coffee there. Also, very off topic, but I thought about Reading Rainbow when I saw reading ninjas in the tags.

      • http://emdottie.com EmDottie

        I’m quite partial to Borders myself.

    • http://myspace.com/KatherineEWebb KitKatCuty84

      I went to a Barnes & Noble on a Friday one time (I think I was just killing time before meeting a friend in Union Square) and there were mad intelligent-looking ninjas in there. I was ticked I had to go meet up with my friend to do the standard lounge night instead of just hanging in there. I tried the next Friday, but I guess the stars weren’t aligned that day. But an all-night Barnes & Noble that played different music on each floor for dancing? Yeah, I’d be there. :)

      • Satya

        There are lots of cuties in the Union Square Barnes& Nobles. I’ve met a few guys there and had some pretty good dates.

  • http://thecochranfirm.wordpress.com/ Dasher of The Newport Dashers

    I have met some of the dumbest people ever at those places.

    • Shay

      I rock and swerve, that’s why I can’t f*ck with
      Coffee houses man, get on my godd*mn nerves
      And deep down ya’ll know that I’m right, man sh*t I’m bout
      To kick some Trick Daddy next poetry night like
      “My black queen
      Don’t know nann ninja”

      • http://twitter.com/yonnie3000 Yonnie 3000

        I <3 Phonte

      • Rog

        Yess! Thats the same song I thought of, but you missed the best parts

        “Ya’ll know them niggas that I’m talkin bout
        The ones that ya’ll be seeing at the coffee house
        Soon as they get the mic I start walkin out
        And swear that they skill the most talked about
        It’s time to bring the emcees on, I’m sick of niggas lookin
        Bitch trying to read poems and try to battle
        Me with sandals and capries on, come on dog
        I’m about to get hyped with this, shed some light to this
        So called black righteousness
        Even though ya’ll niggas might not cuss like me
        At the end of the night ya’ll just trying to fuck like me
        So what’s the reason for the hating, niggas with dreads
        Calling they self gods with white girls named Caitlin
        And I’m cool with interracial dating, but I aint about
        To hear no fucking speeches cause I wanna have some bacon”

        And then the funniest part

        “Fuck that tofu I need a pork chop on my plate”

        • CNotes

          @Rog

          When I first heard the Yo Yo, it was like “finally…somebody said it on wax!”

          In undergrad, the so called “deep” brothas who all hung out together constantly called me “queen” (which is cool/ whatevs). Anyway, I started kicking it with one of them and before long that ninja became a possessive jerkoff who would hide my purse and car keys from me. Oh, and being called “queen” went out of the window. Deep Ninjas? Fooey!

          • legitimate_soul

            ^Yes. Some of the “granola crew” be lyin’ to kick it. It’s game, and pre-meditated game like Shaza on “A Different World” to pull ladies. A convo will show that they wear the stereotypical appearance of “consciousness” and may be just as messy. Natural hair and Afrocentric clothing (which I love), is not the sole ingredient of the righteous. There are wolves in Ghanaian sheep’s clothing out here.

            • CNotes

              @legitimate_soul

              Yeah, that was a huge lesson for me way back then (gotta love college for its life lessons).

              • legitimate_soul

                @CNotes,

                I’m right there with ya’! I learned that lesson too.

          • Rog

            Its funny because the first person that I thought about was Common. He just looks (and acts) like that type of person that would greet you like “How you doing my beautiful, black ,Nubian, Cocoa Butter dipped in Worlds Finest Chocolate Sister”

            btw Foreign Exchanges new joint drops soon (Next Week?)

            p.s.s. I have a crush on Yahzarah, them legs are just………

            • Shay

              I thought it was in October? I could be wrong. I’m losing track of time spending so much time in the library.

              Grad school might be slowly devouring my soul.

              Cosign on Yahzarah.

        • DanceHallKing

          “So what’s the reason for the hating, niggas with dreads
          Calling they self gods with white girls named Caitlin”

          That’s the reason I stopped hanging out with the 5 percenters on south street. All of those dudes were talkin’ all of this “black this and black that” but all they were chasing were stupid white girls. I was like “you cats are frauds”.

        • bonvivant83

          LOL. I NEVER comment but I have to know who raps that song because those lyrics are funny as hell!

        • Shay

          I wanted to post the entire verse, but I thought it’d be overkill. Glad I was wrong.

          I die every time I hear that line.

        • Marisa

          omg rofl. I had never heard this song and I love LB. Seen them in concert, Phonte got no sense! ** Light Bulb** How about Hip Hop shows? There were some cuties when I saw Lupe Fiasco . . . . .

      • Sula

        Incidentally, at a Foreign Exchange concert! :)

        I went to their first Houston show on Sunday night and it was full of cool looking VSBs and VSSs… And people were pleasant and dressed down (if you know the houston nightlife, you’ll understand why this is major)… It was super fan, relaxed and laid-back. Perfect opportunities to meet with like-minded folks.

        • Sula

          It was super fan

          *smh* it was super fUn…. Jesus, be a spellcheck. :)

        • miss t-lee

          I’m mad I missed. *sigh*
          Maybe I can dream they’ll come this way soon.

          • Sula

            It was awesome… The Dude had just rolled into town and was mad tired but there was no way we were going to miss it… and the tickets were just $20 a pop! Winning combination. :)

    • http://thecochranfirm.wordpress.com/ Dasher of The Newport Dashers

      Bike/Jogging Trails

      The Barber Shop

      Thrift Stores

      Cyberspace

      Chess Tournaments

      The Gym

      Best Buy

      Sports Bars

      Clubs/House Parties/Bars

      • Sula

        Bike/Jogging Trails

        Agreed… I was able to meet up with a mostly black biking club by meeting another biker (black) on the trail! And they organize fun events, happy hours and the likes… good one.

      • http://sleep-is-the-cousin-of-death.blogspot.com/ MadScientist7

        “Chess Tournaments

        The Gym

        Best Buy

        Sports Bars”

        i agree with these four.

      • Marissa

        Thrift stores
        Yes!!!!!!! Me and the homie cleaned up on Tues. Lol But question why did thrift shopping suck when you were a kid but it’s the bomb now?

        • Sula

          Because the money is coming out of your own pocket now… Lol! :)

  • http://twitter.com/PenelopeSanchez Penelope

    6) Anywhere Mr. Clarence suggested, right before the “Miss Black Awareness” Pageant– libraries, churches, etc.

    • P.

      They got some fine women there. Good good clean girls.

      That’s where I’m goin, sh*t.

      • legitimate_soul

        LMAO!

      • JessicaL

        Yes a Coming to America reference!

        • tnt_ftw

          we havent had one of those in FOREVER

    • CNotes

      @Penelope

      Bwahaaaaa!!!!!! Love it!

  • http://Www.divinetranquility.wordpress.com Miss Patterson

    Speaking of meeting a like-minded VSS, Miss Patterson is coming to DC next weekend (oct 1-3) to work, play, and party. DC area VSB chapter STAND UP! Hit me on twitter @misspatterson

    Thank you and good night.
    p.s.- I’m still waiting on my (former) west coast chapter vss business cards, but you can just change that now to Pgh treasurer.

  • http://theexoticblack.blogspot.com/ The Exotic Black

    Hmm, I usually just go for the books stores, or libraries. But, preferably book stores; libraries seem to attract people who are too cheap to actually BUY books, so they sit at the library and read…ehh

    Book clubs are also a great place; I host one, and I’ve met a lot of interesting people my age, who actually read, and write at high levels.

    And speaking of concerts: try Jason Mraz <–I met a million interesting, fun people who can read there!

    • brotherspanky

      I dont think that as a VSB I would ever be at a Jason Mraz concert. Especially not dolo. The problem with concerts (at least the R&B/neo-soul ones) is that if I’m there, I’m prolly there with a main squeeze of some sort, and all the “coffee shop b*tches wit the natch-uh-rals” (word to Phonte) ain’t really an option then.

      So its really only possible if me and my fellow VSBs see you and your VSS girls at a Ghostface concert.

      WuTang forever.

      • tnt_ftw

        i live and breath for Ghost…and yes i am the female persuasion

        • legitimate_soul

          Ditto! I saw him perform in Philly and it was great! 1. The tickets were cheap! 2. Ghost has a great catalog!

        • miss t-lee

          yep!!! Ghost puts on a helluva show. I’ve seen him 4 times now. :)

      • http://myspace.com/KatherineEWebb KitKatCuty84

        Can someone explain to me how this “dolo” term came about? It means going “solo”, and yet now people are calling it “dolo”. I just need to be enlightened.

        • miss t-lee

          It’s not new. I’ve been hearing it at least since the mid 90′s. I believe it’s an east coast thing, or at least that’s where I first heard it. (east coast rappers)

    • http://www.nicklodeon.wordpress.com Nick@Nite

      I love Jason Mraz..
      He sings a version (acoustic) of “If it kills me” that honestly KILLS ME!
      good pick

  • http://www.twitter.com/imhotep06 stlunatic

    too bad these don’t exist with a substantial following in StL. . or hell, anywhere else outside of Chocolate City.

    I’m one step ahead of you P. I saw an awry tweet about an open mic last week, coerced (no Eddie Long) my cousin/soror to come with me, and it was a ginormous fail. About 10 people in that piece. The air reeked of desperation. And the acts weren’t even that good. AND I saw two Coogi outfits.

    • http://www.iamyourpeople.com I Am Your People

      It’s only been a day, but I’m pretty sure “no Eddie Long” has replaced “no homo”

    • http://jdiva.wordpress.com ChaoticDiva

      …only in the midwest do they still rock Coogi. You know that’s like Detroit’s favorite designer and sh*t.

      • Humble_One

        @ChaoticDiva

        When was the last time you were on Detroit? 1999? I thought Harlem was the only place that still wore Coogi.

        • http://jdiva.wordpress.com ChaoticDiva

          I’ve been in Indy for 1 month. The other 24 years of my life were spent in Wayne county, where I’m from originally. So yeah. I know what they wear, mainly because some of my family (that I really don’t want to claim) love them some Coogi sweater dresses…smh.

          I take it you don’t visit the east side often…lol.

    • http://theatypicallibrarian.wordpress.com AtypicalLibrarian

      Coogi must die! When I took my niece in August it was like a Coogi Convention in the mall. Grown a** men rocking that mess from head-to-toe. I will be so glad when men get the memo that short sets after the age of 6are one small fail for man and Coogi short sets (w/ a hat to match) are one giant fail for mankind.

      • Brian

        They’re still rocking Coogi in Dallas, home of “The Flex.”

        • ComicBookGuy

          Sad to say, but ni**as in my hometown still rock Coogi. I am related to a few of them.

      • http://thecochranfirm.wordpress.com/ Dasher of The Newport Dashers

        Let’s not lump the Nobel Short Set in with Coogi.

  • ComicBookGuy

    I got a few: Borders, Barnes & Noble, a comic book store, Whole Foods or a grocery store with an organic food section, World Market, Starbucks, the Apple Store, Hot Topic, a Daniel Tosh comedy show, a gourmet burger restaurant, a wine bar, and a historic movie theater during a kung fu movie marathon, especially if Five Deadly Venoms is showing.

    • Misty Knight

      Awww man a movie theater that plays old Kung Fu flicks? Sounds Awesome!
      FDV is one of my faves!

    • http://www.unepetitefillenoire.blogspot.com KayBeezy

      Whole Foods is great! When I moved last week it was literally the first place I located and went to. Haha.

    • http://twitter.com/SmartFoxGirl SmartFoxGirl

      …a nymfos anonymous meeting, new birth aka lick em long’s church, martin luther king jr blvd, mattress store, gas station bathroom….you pick the place and I’ll be there. Either that, or like I said below, send me some boxers to sniff with an autographed picture. lol

      • ComicBookGuy

        LMAO. Thank you. I needed that this morning.

    • sanen85

      Thanks for reminding me that Daniel Tosh is coming to Seattle. *runs to see if it’s sold out yet*

    • Mo (VSS)

      True story, I used to LOATHE Starbucks but I took a job where we would have to meet folks at Starbucks to do informational interviews (I was a union organizer and they do NOT let us-kind on the premises). During those 2 years, I think I ended up trying EVERY type of drink they had and I now frequent Starbucks just to, you know, chill.

      So yeah, you can find folks in Starbucks. Holla at me! :)

      • ComicBookGuy

        Interesting. I was the same way but because my job has me traveling, finding a Starbucks is some podunk town in the South or Midwest is like a godsend. I get online, answer emails, get some coffee or tea, water and a big @ss cookie and I am good. I have seen some nice ones come in, especially in Detroit.

      • Sula

        For a year or so, I was working from home… so Starbucks provided some a change of scenery every now and again… I took a liking to their teas… :)

        And yes, you can find some characters in there. Characters I tell ya.

    • http://myspace.com/KatherineEWebb KitKatCuty84

      Going a step further than Whole Foods, any farmers market is good. I like meeting people who are into holistic ish like me. :)

      • LuvRain

        Out of lurking just to say: do not try this in Northern Cali/The Bay area. All you’ll find there are yuppies and hippies, none of which will be of our persuasion. Whole foods is a breeding ground for them and farmer’s markets are where they go after breeding. You can try SOME flea markets though. SOME. Basically, what we say (most VSB/Ss here are bi-coastal in some way) is “just wait til you go to Brooklyn”. It’s slim in the bay for the VSBs, especially those that don’t believe that the “S” way to go is with an “other” type…very slim.

        • Cali

          Gotta agree w/ LuvRain – pickin’s are SLIM in the Bay, though I have seen a cute dude or two in Whole Foods. I swear it’s a rule that you must be in a couple to attend the farmers market, LOL

    • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

      Hot Topic, the clothing store? In shopping malls? Because, um…ain’t nuffin but emo teenagers in mine. lol

      • ComicBookGuy

        Ok, maybe it’s just me. I go there to buy comic book and video game t-shirts. Oh, and Hello Kitty stuff for my niece. I keep forgetting I go to places where I am the only moderately attractive black person around. Although, when I was out of college, I pulled this bad little chick that worked at a Hot Topic. I was surprised she was working there because she didn’t dress like she worked there and she was surprised I actually walked in there to shop.

        • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

          Hmm, maybe I should go there more often. Haven’t been in a while. But I can give it a shot if VSBs be hiding up in there. My niece loves that store. That’s her style. I may have to find a “reason” to go there…lol

    • Sula

      a historic movie theater

      Speaking of which, do you know the Angelika Center is now closed? I was heartbroken… They closed the Indie theater in Greenway Plaza a couple of years back, now the only “alternative” theater is River Oaks… sadness.

  • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

    “Plus, after the joint, I handed out my card to this chick who said, “folks STAY sending me to this website.””

    #Win. *Sings “Let’s Hear It for the 3″ in the tune of “Let’s Hear It For The Boy”*

    “A Maxwell show.”

    *swoons in memory of said show* *high-fives miss t-lee*

    “This is public service week here at VSB, for those of you who know the very people everybody else is looking to meet, where is the best place to find people who read?”

    I know this is an absolute bonkers answer but since it’s #VSBAfterDark: the bookstore.

    • http://www.twitter.com/imhotep06 stlunatic

      ZACTLY! bonkers indeed. I’m failing to see what it is about a bookstore that fosters communication between strangers. I’m already trying to make myself as invisible as possible bc I’m just using them for their comfortable seating and wifi.

      • JessicaL

        I think it’s the excitement of finding more people who can read.

        • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

          This is sad and hilarious, simultaneously.

    • miss t-lee

      Oh yes!! You would have to bring up Maxwell at such a late hour…lol Still one of the top 5 shows I’ve seen ever. Mmmm Maxwell.:-)

      • Sula

        I’m not a Maxwell fan in general… but attending his show almost made me a believer… (I went for Jilly from Philly. :) )

    • santa monica

      wow, i stop using the interwebs for a few weeks and I cant understand anything that was just said.

      From “#win” down to “This is a PSA”, is that even English? Why is there a number sign in front of the win? What is a Maxwell show? like the singer? The stars around words, what is that, like you saying your doing something your doing but you mean your doing it so you star to show your really doing it?

      man….can i get a translator?

      • http://www.twitter.com/imhotep06 stlunatic

        . . .?

        is she serious?

        • Asia

          ^^ this just brought me out of lurker status LMAO too funny

        • Sula

          Bwahahahaha!

          *dies*

      • http://twitter.com/yonnie3000 Yonnie 3000

        wow, i stop using the interwebs for a few weeks and I cant understand anything that was just said.

        And by “a few weeks,” she clearly means “208.”

      • John Blaze the 1st

        @ santa monica

        #fail …oh never mind. you don’t know what that means.

      • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

        LMFAO @ santa monica

        *slaps knee*
        *daps santa monica*

    • http://www.nicklodeon.wordpress.com Nick@Nite

      I drove to GA in ’99 to see Maxwell.. Back when Embrya just dropped.. Back when tickets were $30 and he played at the Fox Theater.. stayed across the street and found out he was in my hotel..
      THAT was a great concert!!
      Now? I can’t get tickets in the nosebleed sections.. boy, I wish it was 1999 again..

  • 90sgagirl

    -hmm libraries, health food stores, all natural places, Blogs, school
    -wish I could make it to the BBQ or whatever outing..I fall into the #YoungOldHeads category..(Mike Baisden)..so thats the 19-24yrold college kids/adults
    -..the media will destroy a person we don’t know everything however….about #Bishop Eddie Long…..smh…sooo much to say about this subject and homophobia in the Black community/church etc..(when will others come out, like we won’t be surprised about Missy Elliott, and King Latifah..but what about Tyler Perry I thought about the Boondocks episode LMBO!!! I wonder if on the final season of Oprah show, she will have some Announcement,,#imjustsayin…the TRUTH always comes to the light Everything (JillScott), and this makes people extra cynical about religion bc of scandals like this, I don’t want 2 speak ill of a “man of god”, but also I’ve always given Bishop Eddie the sideye with those tight babyGap shirts he wears etc, every church has problems, but I question members/parents of claimed victims you feel comfortable allowing your child/teen go overseas spend too much time with the pastor..sad, smh So many people abuse their authority etc.. I just want the truth to come out, this also makes it difficult for good/honest ministers, I feel bad for his children / wife..smh

    • http://www.twitter.com/imhotep06 stlunatic

      huh? I love how you just shtted all over Panama’s freedom to choose the daily topic of discussion on his own blog. *golf clap*

      kidding. In the words of Cheeks, “Love ya like Eddie Long loves to “mentor” young lads”

      • 90sgagirl

        yeah, this is a HotTopic, especially in the state of GA/Black community right now, haven’t been able to have a discussion about this subject!

      • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

        @stlunatic,

        Did you just quote me? From my blog (that’s — well, wouldya look at that — linked on my vsb moniker? o_O)? I feel all…blushy and whatnot.

        *red cheeks*

        :)

        • http://www.twitter.com/imhotep06 stlunatic

          stalking you. . .cheek by cheek. Us Midwestern VS’s gotta stick togethers.

          • http://www.pinchmycheekie.wordpress.com Cheekie

            *miss sophia* Fine by me.

    • http://twitter.com/SmartFoxGirl SmartFoxGirl

      I understand why many gays are in the closet especially in the black community but preying on younger boys in the name of GOD? #fail. I really hope that’s not true that this man didn’t use his status as a preacher to prey on young ding a ling. I wish he could go to jail for that. I know the guys were 16 and legal at the time but I still feel like Eddie Long is a predator. Do you know how many sex crimes are committed against adolescent boys because of some closeted/sexually frustrated/repressed gay man? Come out, move to Miami and be free, or get HELP. It’s not easy being gay but don’t live a lie and hurt people around you. I got zero respect for that.

      • Mo (VSS)

        Right!!!!! The “in the name of the Lord” reasoning to instigate and continue the abuse is what is infuriating me about this. I used to live in ATL and the attorney who took the case isn’t some quack or ambulance chaser. She was the woman who represented Genarlow Wilson (google him) PRO BONO for TWO years. The organization that I used to work with in ATL worked closely with her and helped with that case as well. In fact, that was her ONLY case for a great bit of that two years. She is pretty reputable and for her to take this case let’s me know there is more to the story than just some dudes looking to fleece Mr. Long.

        • http://twitter.com/SmartFoxGirl SmartFoxGirl

          Word? I believe it. When a man cries rape against another man, I tend to believe it. I just can’t picture someone lying about that. Plus, Eddie’s lack of commentary and the fact that you mentioned he hired a big wig says alot. There’s got to be truth to it. Something about sexual molestation cases make me want to believe it. Like I couldn’t continue to attend his church without giving him the sideye. I bet you there’s some sort of pay off and story retraction. He’s acting guilty.

          • Mo (VSS)

            SFG…the attorney I’m speaking of is representing the boys/men accusing Mr. Long of misconduct. She is not representing Eddie Long. And because of her previous work with Gernarlow, I believe in order for her to take this case, there had to be some clear evidence of misconduct and a crime. She’s pretty ethical as an attorney and tends to take cases more out of doing the right thing, than the money factor.

            • http://twitter.com/SmartFoxGirl SmartFoxGirl

              Oh, I misread that. That makes sense though. Good to know it’s not any Razz B lookin boys with cell phone tapes. lol bad joke.

    • AfroRina

      Ha! I thought I was the only one that was constantly looking @ Eddie Long with the side eye because of those tight a** muscle shirts he wears in the pulpit. Also his iced out Jesus piece, or rather iced out NB (New Birth) chain that I’ve seen him wear. Any man who dresses like that on the regular is not to be trusted….and a pastor…?!
      I hope the TRUTH comes out, whatever that may be….