Comments on: things i’ve learned

By: Southern Grl

Southern Grl — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 02:39:15 +0000

I am an adult virgin, and due to circumstances (childhood abuse and ish), I just got over myself. I’ve waited this long (in my 30s) and I decided, I might as well wait until I married because I’ll have something to look forward to! Believe me, I’m hornier than a bee’s nest, and now that I’m over myself, I’m a changed person — inside AND out! My virginity doesn’t define me anymore BTW, I love your blog. Keep it up bruh!

By: Sepia

Sepia — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 20:30:44 +0000

@The Champ, Thanks for the afternoon blush:)

By: mrsFAB

mrsFAB — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 15:40:21 +0000

Great post. Don’t agree with it all, but an ohsoFAB post none the less!

By: temps

temps — Sun, 01 Feb 2009 20:59:45 +0000

What I learned: 1)Women will put up with a man if you lay the pipe right…no matter how educated she is or isnt and he-well again lay the pipe right-dont matter if he can spell his name…
2)…men no matter his principals will use that sex to control that woman
3) women assume too much, such as: I run a small business instead of shorty asking me how I feel about posting rates on the web she goes into the WHY I should-She was ALL pro with NO cons and thats BAD advice yet if I did the same I would be ignorant of her business acumen.
4) women say things to men as if is the FIRST time we ever heard of it: from a common sense POV at 33 yrs old if I am “hearing it” for the first time…OFF WITH MY HEAD..in other words ladies support your mans EXISTING ideas and if he aint got none well thats who you chose
5)women still believe in changing a man-which is egocentric
6)when they realize it doesnt work the men they date afterward has to pay for it
7)women think a man tellin them “no” is a affront to their womenhood…I got priorities-our time is very high on my list but the movies and videos and dont shoot themselves
too many independent women are NOT helping men they are ENABLING men-compromising her independence
9) and those men yall enabling yall shouldnt be-real talk a dude I grew up with to this day is a “player” well in that he got the car and several BM’s to go with it, at 36 who is paying his car note: his Moms…she lives in the brick- but he baggin them corporate indie chicks, so when yall call these guys out for being “scrubs” why couldnt yall see that in the beginning?
10) women have allowed materialism to speak for a mans character: are you disappointed because in him because he really isnt interested in “pullin his Lex up in a driveway”? Or that you chose a man whose only ambition is his car? (and degree-condo and lifestyle)
In every new case I hear of women disappointed in her man the men fit the same pattern: when they met he had just enough “stuff” so she assumed she had a go-getter in reality when they met he piqued and she was still ascending, and since then like Dec 21 his sun has been setting earlier and earlier.

By: Ro

Ro — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 16:21:35 +0000

@Malone,
4. Females really do that? Why? That’s just dumb to me….now if she goes #2 and it’s her first time there…. you may wanna throw a bat signal, but wasting water to mask you going to pee….foolishness!

By: Datalore

Datalore — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 12:15:18 +0000

@Cheryl,

*co-signing*

By: ThePhiladelphiaNegro

ThePhiladelphiaNegro — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 03:35:15 +0000

@Lil’T,

True indeed sis; true indeed. I thought you were saying that in general, there are more women doing the right thing than men. I misinterpreted your statement.

By: temps

temps — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 03:23:12 +0000

@pgh muse, “defend the DDDM tooth and nail when ERRBody is asking what u see in him (it�s the D* by the way)” until WOMEN deal with this yall really arent goin to progress. Do you think the most powerful women in this country are running around with a dude who if things get ugly can and will compromise ALL of her hard work. Yes the “Oprahs we dont know” are perhaps boy toying around but they KEEP THAT D in check. Men do this with the P, heck we purposely avoid “her” that weekend if need be just to convince ourselves we can control things. But yet as I get older I still hear women of all ages and backgrounds act as good D means let all rationale go out the window. Its great women can have as much good sex as men have had but damn read the tea leaves MOST history with men and women ENDS with the man going down why.. open of the P. Kings, Dictators, Potentate’s all have succumb to it. Strange women have been dying to do what men have always done well now yall screwing up just like us!!!!

By: temps

temps — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:29:33 +0000

@Imperfect, “You never really know a guy until you�re carryin his child” isnt that somewhat of a counterproductive way of having the child? So now that he really isnt going to buy those clothes and get the pampers you see he was never confident just selfish…if you (or the women who have done this) werent in denial BEFORE the kid I cant see why then having his baby is what really clears things up. So he showed nothing of his asshole tendencies-not once, never? Maybe, but I still dont buy it. ALL men show some sign of their imaturity. But between toes curling and his ride and what yall get “accustomed to” I guess yall cant see it. Now if I had a baby by some big butt-no waist airhead then went to gripe about her “character flaws” what I say would the women think of me and my choice in women?

By: temps

temps — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:16:49 +0000

@Right Her, I wonder how many men (lousy men/great lovers) does a woman go thru before seeing#4? I feel half in not most dont believe no. 4…all I know is no woman kept a lousy man around that wasnt one of her BETTER lovers. Somehwere she feels his maturity or her value is on the same plane as his dick game…sad. I say this as one of my homegirls another one of these “mature” way past 21 independent types is having a married mans baby..I bet he was better than “ok” in the bed!!!!