Tagged “marriage”

I’m Someone’s Husband? Me? Really?

Damon's latest at EBONY on the word "husband" and how he doesn't quite feel like one -- at least the movie version of one -- yet.

Skinny Jeans And Jordans And…A Gray Hair? Wait…Am I Having A Mid-Life Crisis?

Although I feel (relatively) young and think I look (relatively) young, I'm closer to 50 than I am to 18. Perhaps the Jordans are a sign of a mid-life crisis

What I’ve Learned About Myself After Being Married For A Month

Maybe they don't know everything about you, but they know you. And with that comes a steadily increasing level of imperviousness to your bullshit. Since you can't really bullshit them, you can't really bullshit yourself. Not anymore.

Husband Makes Spreadsheet of Wife’s Excuses for Not Having Sex

In the most meticulous display of bitchassness you may see this month, a frustrated husband made a s...

Six Things No One Tells You About Your Wedding Day

There's no other time you'll have people from all corners of your life in one place. Well, maybe your funeral. But that doesn't count, cause you won't be there.

I’m Getting Married In 10 Days. And I’m Fine With That.

People keep asking if I'm nervous my single days are ending. I don't have the heart to tell them the truth. ("No. Not at all.")

10 Things You Need To Know If You Were Invited To A Wedding This Summer

Unless they're in that 1% of salmon-colored pants wearing motherf*ckers whose family owns the rights to the color orange, your soon-to-be married friends will need money.

Getting Married…And Acting Single

Today is May 19th. Which means I will be getting married two months from today. Which also means...

We Know “It’s Complicated.” But Who Cares?

In a culture that encourages us all to have options, we don’t stand for any presentations of ambiguity in affairs of the heart.

On Acquiring A Very Particular Skill…And Watching Your Marriage Murder It

I don't know who you are. I don't know what you want. If you are looking for ransom, I can tell yo...

Why I Believe In Marriage (…And Why I Can’t Judge You If You Don’t)

Although I'm getting married in three months, I have to admit there are parts of being single I ...

Things About Being Engaged You Don’t Learn Until You Get Engaged

***An actual conversation I had with my actual fiancee a couple days ago*** Me: "We need anot...

When Your Worst Behavior And Best Behavior Is The Same Damn Thing

We've all heard the story before: Boy spots Girl at 6th annual Delta "Chicken Wing Eating Con...

The Big, Fat Lie About Black Marriage

Monday night, my fiancee and I attended the first of seven sessions for a pre-marriage counseli...

Proposals, Grand Gestures, and Why They Don’t Make Everything Better

Recently in Negronia aka The Land of Monday Nights on VH1, Love & Hip-Hop: New York star rapper ...