Tagged “life”

I Went To My First Private School Birthday Party. Here’s What Happened.

Private school birthday parties are a different world...from where we came from.

I Bought A Mountain Dew. Here’s How It Happened. Don’t Buy Mountain Dew.

Every now and then we all make bad decisions. Here is one man's story about a bad decision.

Since My Biological Didn’t Bother

One man's thoughts on some of the lessons he learned growing up without his father around.

Are You Smart or Smart Enough?

[Admin Note: Earlier today on Twitter, somebody mentioned a post I wrote almost 10 years ago - liter...

Sun, Moon, Stars, Quasars and Sh*t

I'm going to share a little about myself here. Sharing is caring has long been one of my mantras...

How To Be Friends With People With Kids

I've had a kid for about 4 and a half years now. I remember when I first got my kid. She was all bri...

The Moments of Impact

I have a confession. I like the movie The Vow. I've watched it a million times via cable movie chann...

Parenthood Strugglelife.

Parenthood, ah parenthood. It's simultaneously one of the most rewarding yet stressful endeav...

The One About Self-Awareness.

I remember the first time I heard the theory that people are more intimately familiar with who the...

Is This What Growed Up Feels Like?

Personal growth is a motherlover. Especially when you don't see it coming. And in some ways it can...

April Showers: In Memory Of…

Y'all gon' have to forgive me, because today I just feel like sharing. I remember when my lif...

The Five Most Underrated Black Movies Of The Last 20 Years

Although I still maintain that Black movies can and should do better, I definitely don't think a...

Curtain Call: Signs It’s Time To Go…From Anywhere

Earlier today, Lil Boosie (nee Torrance Hatch) plead guilty to transporting drugs into two feder...

6 Things That Every Grown A** Black Man Needs In His Life

We've spent a significant amount of time here at VSB trying to help the womenfolks understand wh...

What The World Needs Now.

Given the events of the past few days, I figure we should just switch modes for a minute so everybod...