*By the way, in this post I’m using this logic: She believes she deserves closure, so he owes it to her. That’s why owe and deserve are used almost interchangeably.
Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve had a long running debate with a friend of mine about the way her relationship ended and the fact she, like many people before her – both men and women – didn’t receive any closure. Essentially, she has no idea what happened. All she knows is that it was all good just a week ago.
Dude used to be her homey. Now he acts like he don’t even know she.
One of the biggest problems with most breakups that don’t end because of some sort of landmark event – think cheating, spitting on mom dukes, pulling a Kanye – is that one person is always going to end up with more questions than answers.
Why did we break up? What really happened? Why did you just stop calling? Was it something I did? Was it something you did? Continue reading