Tagged “attraction”

These Are The Tales, The PJ Tales, Part II

Earlier, I intro'd the story of Jackie, a young Spelmanite who I'd found myself enamored with withou...

These Are The Tales, The PJ Tales, Part I

Can I tell you all a story? It's not a story of redemption. In fact, it doesn't even have a happy en...

11 Things That Men Do That Are Attractive ONLY If You’re Interested

Recently, I came across a slight ridiculous and mostly no-sh*t-Sherlock list on Huffington Post ...

If You’re Happy, Then I’m Good…Maybe I’ll See You Next Lifetime…

Have you seen the movie 10 Years? If not, what will follow are some spoilers of sorts. If you've...

Why Praising Someone For Their Brain Is Just As “Shallow” As Praising Them For Their Beauty

While it was generally well-received, yesterday's guest post from Chris E. garnered some pretty ...

One Woman’s Fear That “Wedding Ring” = “No More Random Male Attention…EVER!”

***Hello, everyone. Please welcome Chris E. to the VSB pulpit. Since this is her first time, I a...

10 Dating And Sex-Related Things Never Said By Anyone, Anywhere, Ever

If you've ever taken a look at our origin story, you'll see that helping people and shit is a hu...

Dating Profiling: How Your “Look” Affects Your Luck

***Editors Note: Due to some technical difficulties, The Champ wasn't able to post the topic he plan...

Oh, And About Assholes And The Women Who Love Them…

It happens at least once a season. Someone on a few high profile blogs or websites will state th...

The Practicality of “Ugly Affirmative Action”

***The Hill Review — a literary magazine blending essays, excerpts, reviews, fiction, poetry, cri...

The Best Dating Advice For a Man? “Never, Ever Listen To Women.”

***The Hill Review --- a literary magazine blending essays, excerpts, reviews, fiction, poetry, cri...

The 500 Billion Dollar Question

In a week where we 1) saw approximately 126,000 different moderately famous men all decide to c...

Building The Perfect (Wo)Man

"So basically, all women want a 6'4'', God-fearing, well-endowed, faithful (ha!), funny, brolic, c...

The 10 Men You Should Never, Ever, Ever Consider Dating

Last week, Essence.com published "10 Underrated Men & Why You Should Date Them" -- a piece where...

A Good Problem?

Last week, while on Twitter and thinking of unique ways to plug our book (Just did it again!), I...