Comments on: stages: three underrated relationship benchmarks

By: Doing It Korean Style

Doing It Korean Style — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 05:30:30 +0000

@J. Delicious, I agree with that one. And also being able to stay together while traveling is a big deal. Otherwise, this list is pretty much perfect.

By: Tenchi

Tenchi — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 03:31:59 +0000

@Neighborhood Hussy,
I shall cosign that with a tambourine and a chorus of Handel’s Messiah!
(Poor SO didn’t know what hit him when he looked up 6 months later and hadn’t had meat)

By: Neighborhood Hussy

Neighborhood Hussy — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 03:29:16 +0000

When you convert the life long swine-eater to a life of turkey chops and Morning Star bacon forever more….that my friends, is true love.

By: Tenchi

Tenchi — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 01:57:37 +0000

@Me fail english?,
The first time he leaves you in his apartment alone for hours at a time.

I remember the first time I did that with the SO…*insert dramatic eye roll and lawdamercy sigh*

I called up my Ace Companero and was like, “Yo!!!! I left dude at my place all unsupervised!” Had folks dropping by to drop off fern seeds, miscellaneous buttons and tweezers, just so he wouldn’t be there too long without a watchful eye! (*looks back and chuckles…*)

By: Tenchi

Tenchi — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 01:36:00 +0000

@Caballeroso,

Yeah, that’s going to be a big old HELL NAH from any potential SO’s…
I had one who BEAT ME to my dad’s bed side after a slight cardial infarction…so image the look on the CURRENT SO’s face when we walk in and see the ex~boo fluffing pillows…
No es bueno!

By: Tenchi

Tenchi — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 01:24:44 +0000

@Ivyette,

3. Buying sanitary napkins or tampons for her. It�s an extra 10 points if he buys you anti yeast infection cream (hey, it happens sometimes)

*Guffaw, faint*
I’mma need him to stay off aisle 10…come back with some perfumed, dyed monstrosity and cause untold damage to our good times!

By: HamptonUSista

HamptonUSista — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:42:00 +0000

@double j, I so agree with you. Men use to be so happy when a chick would swallow. My ex would be like “youre in love aint cha?” Now it has changed to something a lot of men expect so it doesnt carry the same oomph as it once did. Plus once we found out that it really does not whiten our teeth the sh*t hit the fan.

By: HamptonUSista

HamptonUSista — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:39:20 +0000

Oh I forgot. When your man sees what your real hair looks like for all my weave and wig wearing sistas ( I am one of those chicks at times but I have my own short haircut more often then not.) I know a man who literally just recently saw his gf’s real hair for the first time after a 4 year relationship. That’s a benchmark to me. But many will never reach it sadly because some chicks act like it’s some secret society sh*t where no man (unless he is the stylist) is invited.

By: HamptonUSista

HamptonUSista — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:28:14 +0000

@The Champ, lol maybe it is mayb it is (throwin up secret hand sign)

By: klysha

klysha — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 22:30:27 +0000

@Cheekie, hilarious