Comments on: three signs that he’s a “good dude”

By: Pay It Forward Friday « malikaziz.com

Pay It Forward Friday « malikaziz.com — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 04:21:34 +0000

[...] Prime Example:� “Three Signs He’s a Good Dude”:� http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/signs-that-hes-a-good-dude/ [...]

By: Miss Kristia

Miss Kristia — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 23:32:40 +0000

The ‘checker’ one is crucial for anyone of any sexuality and gender. I can’t emphasize that one enough too. We have all learned that one the hard way. And ideally, they have multiple checkers and of different genders too. That’s hella convenient.

Cause trust, my girls call me out on shit I usually already know. It’s my boys who really fuckin call me out and remind me that being bossy is a full-time job, not a mere title I can toss around.

By: temps

temps — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 03:48:08 +0000

@blackberry molasses,if yall lose next week NO ONE will care about that game..hell at least I have watched the G-Men attempt to defend their title 3 Times-when the hell did the eagles ever win the Super Bowl….?

By: temps

temps — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 03:46:47 +0000

@Relax, Relate, Alise, yes!!! I have been killing the ladies on this. Some of yall have got to stop excusin his nonsense becuase you REALLY are turned on by the three homes: two on the “coast” and one in MIA- yea well if he treats you like a mule what does it matter?..and it WILL never “get better” no matter what you do for him. I get tired of hearing women saying “he dont have to but I like to know he can”..well I cant take yo’ ass to the Bahamas or Cancun on your BD if thats a problem then fine, the dating process is working for me…cya!!!!

By: True since '89

True since '89 — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 07:32:02 +0000

@The Champ,

meaning they’re delusional. they think they’re something they REALLY, TRULY aren’t. their “good dude-ness” must be down with harry potter and the hogwarts gang because its visible to them… and only them (read: invisible, non-existent).

By: Nicki Sunshine

Nicki Sunshine — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 14:23:00 +0000

@MDUBB, Why thank you sir… and I appreciate your unspoken good dudeness qualities.

By: Imperfect

Imperfect — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 04:10:22 +0000

@ 40 Tx10inch

-Don�t want a relationship � Just tryin to smash (I know plenty of good dudes that just wanted to smash and it became something more and significant (this rarely happens, but sometimes you just gotta take a chance right? lol)

For me this is an automatic disqualification. I understand that good dudes are still dudes who want to have sex. But if you go into a relationship with the intent ‘just to smash’ it kinda screams LACK OF CHARACTER to me

By: shatani

shatani — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 03:38:19 +0000

@Princess Duvet,

im sure that ive said that…im not sure that its true though…

By: SouthernGirl

SouthernGirl — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 03:28:18 +0000

@FiveFivewithbrowneyes, lol

By: SouthernGirl

SouthernGirl — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 03:27:57 +0000

@blackberry molasses, girl yeah. i gotta keep up with the sparkly sistas 2009 upgrade memorandum