Comments on: return of the black man’s hat

By: genius khan

genius khan — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 13:50:54 +0000

yeah Champ that video on Single Black Male has been around for quite a few years but it is not only well done but really slaps the stankin ass shit out of an accepted stereotype. heh, heh, heh.

dam those sisters look good in the “film short” though. errr one of them.

By: Single Black Male � Angry Black Woman or Tired Black Man? [Video]

Single Black Male � Angry Black Woman or Tired Black Man? [Video] — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 09:10:44 +0000

[...] Very Smart Brotha’s touched on interracial dating recently, and damned if they didn’t spell it out in very simple terms why many of us have dated outside the race. [...]

By: aliaye

aliaye — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 08:18:26 +0000

*butt slaps da Champ* lol

By: Liz

Liz — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 05:17:39 +0000

Heeey i think Poetic Justice is a good movie?!

WTF is wrong with poetic justice?!?!?!

By: don giovanni

don giovanni — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 05:14:16 +0000

not that really i watch BET, but did anyone watch Hip-Hop vs. America II/Where did the love go?? did anyone have any thoughts on that??

By: kamakula

kamakula — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 04:53:11 +0000

I see.

I actually chose the Escalade because at the time I started college, it was the vehicle of choice to bankrupt a lot of my peers.

I suppose Expeditions or just about any SUV suffers from that problem though.

By: Sister Toldja

Sister Toldja — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 04:16:05 +0000

“If we are speaking in general there are so many factors (other than culture) in the raising of a child. Where culture fits on that list once prioritized is subjective. ”

Word.

What sort of things have you done to embrace this challenge? Like, where there strategies that you employed that you feel you may not have had to if you had White kids? What advice would you give other non-Black parents of Black kids?

By: Sister Toldja

Sister Toldja — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 04:13:40 +0000

But that show wasn’t an accident. Clearly, he has a taste for gutter women….or at least enjoys helping them exploit themselves. Fuck him and his shitty song. He won’t be around next summer.

By: maya

maya — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 04:09:35 +0000

Wanting to know for the sake of knowing equates to noseyness, and I can assure you that any non-black woman who is dating a black man will get a full explanation as to why no one approves during the tenure of their relationship.

By: don giovanni

don giovanni — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 03:24:44 +0000

@ Teacia
for the record, never have i been against it!! to each there own!! when it comes to love, i will never stand in the way of it no matter what!! i can’t fault someone for finding love in someone outside of their own race when they get hurt time and time again by someone who is supposed to be their “brotha” or “sista” and down for the so-called “cause”!! aren’t u the one who saw some type of interest in a former house mate of yours that was a little more pale than myself?? as for my german friends, my white friends, my persian friends, my italian friends, my columbian friends, that is all we are!! friends!! but if the day comes where we find ourselves attracted to each other as more than friends and want to explore that, why would i deny myself the pleasure or happiness that could be, just to prove to another black chick walking by who doesn’t even know me nor would she give me the time of day if asked, that i am pro-black enough to stand by a black woman who doesn’t give a shit about me rather than enjoy the happiness and what have you from the one who is really into me?? truthfully, i can ignore the stares which brings me back to my original question, which the champ reposted, that has never been answered:

�we talk about the lack of quality people (male or female) out there to fall in love with when most of the time, if they don�t fit into this cookie cutter mold (the car, the job, the salary, the height, the shoe/dress size, etc.) they are overlooked without a second glance!!! however, when someone else (of a different race, nationality, etc.) pays attention to them, mostly because they can look past the issues that you had with the person, you get up in arms over it when, again, you didn�t want them in the first place??�

the reason that he may not want you is something i can’t say!! again, to each his own!! i can say that not everyone is meant for everyone…someone’s dime might be someone else’s penny, while someone’s nickel may be someone’s dollar!! my reasons for not liking someone are my reasons and mine alone, but my cons might be “mike’s” pros and vice versa!! its all in doing you and making you happy, while i have to do me and make me happy!! if somewhere down the line our paths cross and we can do us, then that is even better!! but i won’t knock you for finding what you so desperately need because it comes in a package that is totally different than me!!! and i won’t live my life trying to please everyone else except for myself when it comes to my private and personal life!! i can ignore the looks because that is all that they are!! the chicks who didn’t want me then because i wasn’t on “their level” only want me now because i’m happy and unattainable, while they are still alone and looking for the brotha who is supposed to be on their level!! and if you didn’t want to be with me then and seemed very sincere in not trying to make me think i was gaining any progress in our initial meeting, why would i think you were sincere when you tell me that i shouldn’t be with that white devil because only a sista like yourself knows how to treat me like the king i am?? within the past 3 months, i didn’t grow an extra 6 inches, i didn’t upgrade my accord to a benz, and i didn’t start making an extra $100k a year!! so what gives now?? just because i’m with someone who doesn’t look like you??

Looking forward to the new post!! Leaving this one alone!!! good night!! gotta go get my drink on!!