<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" > <channel><title>Comments on: Relationship Downfall Week:  Hyundai With a Ferrari Engine</title> <atom:link href="http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 07:49:57 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <item><title>By: My Downfall: I Just Can&#8217;t Do It &#124; Very Smart Brothas</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-251564</link> <dc:creator>My Downfall: I Just Can&#8217;t Do It &#124; Very Smart Brothas</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2011 15:29:27 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-251564</guid> <description>[...] Relationship Downfall Week: Hyundai With a Ferrari Engine [...]</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Relationship Downfall Week: Hyundai With a Ferrari Engine [...]</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: bruce almighty</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-249622</link> <dc:creator>bruce almighty</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 13 Mar 2011 17:10:43 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-249622</guid> <description>sometime just sometime the masterplan change. and you have a family and put thing on the old back burner the kid grow up and grew apart and now you have a chevy in a jag that plan gone so is the relationship</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sometime just sometime the masterplan change. and you have a family and put thing on the old back burner the kid grow up and grew apart and now you have a chevy in a jag that plan gone so is the relationship</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ana B</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-3011</link> <dc:creator>Ana B</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 19:27:10 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-3011</guid> <description>@ Treezy, &quot;Men have the luxury of waiting for as long as they want to to get married and have babies. We all know the biological dilemma for women.&quot;Don&#039;t forget about the sacrifices to our career advancement because more often than not it is the woman who has to sacrifice at least 24 months (physiologically) and then the first few years to nurture their child, at times risking even sacrificing our career advancement</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Treezy, &#8220;Men have the luxury of waiting for as long as they want to to get married and have babies. We all know the biological dilemma for women.&#8221;</p><p>Don&#8217;t forget about the sacrifices to our career advancement because more often than not it is the woman who has to sacrifice at least 24 months (physiologically) and then the first few years to nurture their child, at times risking even sacrificing our career advancement</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ana B</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-3010</link> <dc:creator>Ana B</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 19:22:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-3010</guid> <description>that last comment was in response to D*story&#039;s comment on companionship...now back to your regularly schedule program</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that last comment was in response to D*story&#8217;s comment on companionship&#8230;now back to your regularly schedule program</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ana B</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-3009</link> <dc:creator>Ana B</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 19:21:14 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-3009</guid> <description>you are so right, because cleary the cold side of the bed IS COLD cause no one lays there...</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you are so right, because cleary the cold side of the bed IS COLD cause no one lays there&#8230;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ana B</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-3006</link> <dc:creator>Ana B</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 19:17:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-3006</guid> <description>Guilty as charged too</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Guilty as charged too</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ana B</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-3004</link> <dc:creator>Ana B</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 19:15:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-3004</guid> <description>&quot;The Potential Prober&quot;*visual*Panama walking the streets with probe in hand &quot;proding&quot; unsuspecting women as he happens upon them</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The Potential Prober&#8221;</p><p>*visual*</p><p>Panama walking the streets with probe in hand &#8220;proding&#8221; unsuspecting women as he happens upon them</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: jess</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-2935</link> <dc:creator>jess</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 03:53:20 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-2935</guid> <description>what was it? A woman falls in love and decides to get married, a man decides to get married and finds a wife.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what was it? A woman falls in love and decides to get married, a man decides to get married and finds a wife.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: The Champ</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-2934</link> <dc:creator>The Champ</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 03:11:38 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-2934</guid> <description>lol...ya&#039;ll are too easy</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>lol&#8230;ya&#8217;ll are too easy</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Treezy F. Baby</title><link>http://verysmartbrothas.com/relationship-downfall-week-hyundai-with-a-ferrari-engine/#comment-2933</link> <dc:creator>Treezy F. Baby</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 02:22:54 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=41#comment-2933</guid> <description>As a woman, I would loooove to be able to say that, &quot;I will settle down after I make it&quot; but truth is women feel under major pressure to pursue both a career and a relationship at the same time. I know for a fact that if I let my career goals sleep for the &quot;good&quot; of a relationship errh, marriage...I would end up resenting my husband later.  And besides &quot;making it&quot; to me is having both a successful career and a successful marriage. But, our fears are magnified when we don&#039;t see a whole lotta examples in the world of women doing both.  It really frightens me to think that I will be making one happen at the expense of the other.  Men have the luxury of waiting for as long as they want to to get married and have babies.  We all know the biological dilemma for women. Maybe we bet on potential because we&#039;d rather tie down something now rather than risk not finding it later...betting on potential is thus as Deviant has alluded to-- SETTLING...but in a way to not seem like you&#039;re REALLY settling because of POTENTIAL. ;)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a woman, I would loooove to be able to say that, &#8220;I will settle down after I make it&#8221; but truth is women feel under major pressure to pursue both a career and a relationship at the same time. I know for a fact that if I let my career goals sleep for the &#8220;good&#8221; of a relationship errh, marriage&#8230;I would end up resenting my husband later.  And besides &#8220;making it&#8221; to me is having both a successful career and a successful marriage. But, our fears are magnified when we don&#8217;t see a whole lotta examples in the world of women doing both.  It really frightens me to think that I will be making one happen at the expense of the other.  Men have the luxury of waiting for as long as they want to to get married and have babies.  We all know the biological dilemma for women. Maybe we bet on potential because we&#8217;d rather tie down something now rather than risk not finding it later&#8230;betting on potential is thus as Deviant has alluded to&#8211; SETTLING&#8230;but in a way to not seem like you&#8217;re REALLY settling because of POTENTIAL. <img src='http://cdn.verysmartbrothas.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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