Comments on: PSA: Love or Something Like It

By: AlexMan

AlexMan — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 14:42:08 +0000

You says the right things man, I absolutely agree that it is a bit stupid to hear only your brains but not heart. That is ridiculous sometimes but it is true in 99%

By: Timothy

Timothy — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 17:00:54 +0000

playing his radio high above his head and pointed toward your window, crying to your mom

By: Caught my attention… « jawakatyma

Caught my attention… « jawakatyma — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:27:06 +0000

[...] PSA: Love or Something Like It�(VSB) – “Just because a person makes YOU feel better about yourself doesn�t mean that they love you. Now, it might help you to love them, but truth be told, unless you make them feel better about themselves too, they�re clealry just filling some hole (no pun intended) you were missing on the inside.� To them, you could just be any random person.� They could be your lucky charms, but to them, you might just be some low-fat, low-sugar, fiber-filled cereal.� And best believe, NOBODY likes that sh*t.� If they tell you they do, they�re lying and will put a hit out on your mother in 2 years.” x [...]

By: Candace

Candace — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 17:41:17 +0000

@Lili,
So true and it’s sad. It’s like we miss the red flags totally. I am going through that now. You can’t make someone be something they’re not. It won’t end up well. Good bedding doesn’t always make for a great future.

By: Foreigner

Foreigner — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 06:15:39 +0000

@Yaa,

That’s some really true insight you’ve got there, but why do the majority of people have to wait to find out the hard way? Usually, people who find this truth about relationships only do so after very many years in the game, and that in itself presents new issues about finding mates, etc.

By: Yaa

Yaa — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 02:53:36 +0000

@SwDee, I AGREE!! A date is a date….you will never meet my kids after “a date”. Fool get outta here! I am always shocked at parents that do that. Having their kids calling some random person Uncle or Auntie.

By: Yaa

Yaa — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 02:43:31 +0000

@The Champ, dying!!!!

By: Yaa

Yaa — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 02:39:58 +0000

@Cheekie, I think that the overall idea of what love and relationships are is a bit warped. I think we get out ideas from these fantasy ideas fed to us from movies, tv, etc. Relationships have to be built and that takes time. We want it instantly and when we cant have it that fast we move on to the next “good” thing. People dont want to take the time to invest in getting to know a person. Often its all about the fire and the physical and when that fire dies people are ready to leave. Everybody tosses around the word love like its a greeting. For me love is almost indescribable, its a connection between two people that are down for each other no matter what (somebody to wipe your ass or nose when you get sick kinda thing!) Its a totally unconditional thing. So personally, until I find that with a person I dont throw the word around. I tell my family that I love them because I mean it and its based on what I feel love is. Outside of that….I may have a STRONG LIKE or YEAH I AM REALLY FEELING YOU is all that I can give.

And this isnt an angry black woman comment lol (hate those!!). I am just getting older, wiser and about substance.

By: Yaa

Yaa — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 02:22:39 +0000

@Panama Jackson, I used to have A LIST of things that were reasons to bounce LOL. AN ACTUAL HANDWRITTEN LIST!! And every time things didnt feel right and I got signs or had that gut feeling that MAYBE dude aint the one, I would always review my list. Finally I just stopped being so technical and started following my heart and like you said started seeing signs that its time to roll out!

By: Yaa

Yaa — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 02:12:02 +0000

@Luvvie, LOL! At first I didnt see what the issue was and thought some of you all were being mean. But I feel you Luvvie….I feel ya.