Comments on: no he didnt!: the five worst times to approach a black woman http://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman Wed, 23 May 2012 08:44:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ms. Maihttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-322612 Ms. Mai Fri, 19 Aug 2011 15:42:02 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-322612 From a youthful yet mature woman to the males. try not meeting females in the "club"! that's the first mistake if you are truly tryng to meet a woman and focus on a mature conversation...;u wont get that in a nightclub with alot of drinks happening plus the protective posse (which girlfriends should always have).wouldnt you want to meet a woman in society who is on her way to volunteer, or grocery shopping, or at a political rally??? you can truly get a much character assessment when she is on her way somewhere to contribute to something of value or NOT -lol but your chances of uninterrrupted one on one short chat is better than a loud club with alot of drunk, "tipsicated" folk! --i only share this if a male is trying to truly chill and get to know a woman, NOT trying to have a playdate now and then.........no strings etc, are usually where guys really dont want to know the woman on one on one as intensely as the one he is very drawn to and feels there can be some variety of chemistry ...not just intimate. From a youthful yet mature woman to the males. try not meeting females in the “club”! that’s the first mistake if you are truly tryng to meet a woman and focus on a mature conversation…;u wont get that in a nightclub with alot of drinks happening plus the protective posse (which girlfriends should always have).

wouldnt you want to meet a woman in society who is on her way to volunteer, or grocery shopping, or at a political rally??? you can truly get a much character assessment when she is on her way somewhere to contribute to something of value or NOT -lol but your chances of uninterrrupted one on one short chat is better than a loud club with alot of drunk, “tipsicated” folk! –i only share this if a male is trying to truly chill and get to know a woman, NOT trying to have a playdate now and then………no strings etc, are usually where guys really dont want to know the woman on one on one as intensely as the one he is very drawn to and feels there can be some variety of chemistry …not just intimate.

]]> By: Tonya Lovehttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-180570 Tonya Love Wed, 07 Jul 2010 20:30:11 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-180570 9 months late this time! LOLDo/Don't approach a woman with her GROWN children present. Was at the bar of a restaurant sitting with my mother (who looked like she was in her late 30's at the time) when dude slid over and tried to holla. I was embarrassed. She was flattered that he didn't think she was old enough to have a daughter as old as I was.Proceed with caution. 9 months late this time! LOL

Do/Don’t approach a woman with her GROWN children present. Was at the bar of a restaurant sitting with my mother (who looked like she was in her late 30′s at the time) when dude slid over and tried to holla. I was embarrassed. She was flattered that he didn’t think she was old enough to have a daughter as old as I was.

Proceed with caution.

]]> By: Chandrahttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-152763 Chandra Tue, 02 Mar 2010 16:35:23 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-152763 OK, I normally just read and don't post. However, because I know everything about the movie "Silence of the Lambs", I knew right away what you were talking about when you referenced Jame Gumb. I could not help but to fall out laughing to the point of tears (seriously). Most probably did not catch that, but I knew where it was from right away!!! Love it!!!! OK, I normally just read and don’t post. However, because I know everything about the movie “Silence of the Lambs”, I knew right away what you were talking about when you referenced Jame Gumb. I could not help but to fall out laughing to the point of tears (seriously). Most probably did not catch that, but I knew where it was from right away!!! Love it!!!!

]]> By: behttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-141905 be Sun, 27 Dec 2009 06:24:04 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-141905 @The Champ,I can say from way too much experience that being told to smile is just plain irritating, but if you can say or do something that makes me smile you gain major points. Its all in the delivery. @The Champ,

I can say from way too much experience that being told to smile is just plain irritating, but if you can say or do something that makes me smile you gain major points. Its all in the delivery.

]]> By: CamiRichhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-136453 CamiRich Tue, 24 Nov 2009 23:43:05 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-136453 UH, how bout when she's already visibly Pregnant, I dunno about ya'll but I would think a womb full o' baby, says Unavailable! UH, how bout when she’s already visibly Pregnant, I dunno about ya’ll but I would think a womb full o’ baby, says Unavailable!

]]> By: jawjapeachhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-136206 jawjapeach Mon, 23 Nov 2009 20:45:24 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-136206 I generally don't give my # to dudes just out on the street walking. Too many negative experiences from just weird, stalkerish dudes. If you holla at me with a "hey slim" it is 100% guaranteed I will not stop. I just don't do it, period.However, in situations where I can at least strike up convo, chances are greatly increased that I'll give you my #. This would be at a club, and you've smartly approached me in a position where I'm not surrounded by my gfs, a house party, or through friends at a mutual friend's party/event. Better yet, if I'm already familiar with your face through school/work, even better chances.It's really common sense shit. The literal hollering at some one just seems so desperate. I generally don’t give my # to dudes just out on the street walking. Too many negative experiences from just weird, stalkerish dudes. If you holla at me with a “hey slim” it is 100% guaranteed I will not stop. I just don’t do it, period.

However, in situations where I can at least strike up convo, chances are greatly increased that I’ll give you my #. This would be at a club, and you’ve smartly approached me in a position where I’m not surrounded by my gfs, a house party, or through friends at a mutual friend’s party/event. Better yet, if I’m already familiar with your face through school/work, even better chances.

It’s really common sense shit. The literal hollering at some one just seems so desperate.

]]> By: Chanelhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-136022 Chanel Sat, 21 Nov 2009 13:04:51 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-136022 When I'm with my white boyfriend. When I’m with my white boyfriend.

]]> By: Blazehttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-135164 Blaze Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:55:39 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-135164 @Panama Jackson, Exactly Bruh! Why are these women frontin like they don't like the attention while they're busted up? @Panama Jackson,

Exactly Bruh! Why are these women frontin like they don’t like the attention while they’re busted up?

]]> By: tnt_FTWhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-134971 tnt_FTW Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:15:23 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-134971 @CleverScreenName,*ouch* but the worst part was my mom put HIM on the spot. i had peeped him about 4 aisles before we checked out. and he couldnt muster up enough gumption to spit dat hot fiyah. and i had made up my decision that he wasnt worth my time. but then my mom blasted him and yeah. tragic. i dont even think she realizes what she did @CleverScreenName,

*ouch* but the worst part was my mom put HIM on the spot. i had peeped him about 4 aisles before we checked out. and he couldnt muster up enough gumption to spit dat hot fiyah. and i had made up my decision that he wasnt worth my time. but then my mom blasted him and yeah. tragic. i dont even think she realizes what she did

]]> By: Jade Starhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/no-he-didnt-the-five-worst-times-to-approach-a-black-woman/#comment-134931 Jade Star Wed, 18 Nov 2009 09:35:37 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2979#comment-134931 I've never had problems about being approached, just don't be a douchebag.I just have issues about personal space. If dude gets to close to me, that turns me off.I shouldn't be able to see the pores in your face, that means you're too close! I’ve never had problems about being approached, just don’t be a douchebag.

I just have issues about personal space. If dude gets to close to me, that turns me off.

I shouldn’t be able to see the pores in your face, that means you’re too close!

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