****edit, wednesday 12:00pm****

watch as “our favorite cp3″ plays a principle role in the first ever wnba bench clearing brawl. we couldn’t be more proud

http://youtube.com/watch?v=uhnxUbUi_nM

****end of edit****

there are a few guarantees in life, with “death”, “doritoe stains”, and “getting the roof of your mouth burned by microwaved french bread pizza” obviously being among them.

for the champ, since i’m basically a human garbage disposal when it comes to food, i can guarantee that at least two or three times a day, i will be extremely hungry. this isn’t your normal hunger, or even your grandmothers hunger, but an all-encompassing hyenaesque condition caused by the fact that my metabolism is faster than tyson gay. sh*t, at the moment I’m writing this I’m extremely hungry, and when you finally read this I will probably be extremely hungry then too.

what the champ usually looks like when hes hungry

what the champ usually looks like when he's hungry

now, if I happen to be out and about while I’m in one of these hungry spells, there’s a chance that I might happen to walk past somebody eating a whopper or one of those neat little wrap thingys from bruegger’s bagels. naturally, my first instinct when seeing that will be to snatch the food from the person’s hand, push them down, and run away eating and cackling, fulfilling my unrelenting hunger.

thing is, because i’m a human being, and i’m aware of little things like “laws” and “social mores” and “prisons” and i’ve seen shows like “Oz” that remind me of why i don’t want to go to prison, i just walk by, ignoring my natural instincts.

my point is that being a human is predicated on doing a lot of unnatural shit. wearing clothes, using toasters, buying books, watching “Girlfriends”, visiting outrageously popular weblogs co-founded by colloquial pittsburgers…basically everything we consciously do is unnatural, and it’s idiotic to compare our sexual selves to other species in the animal kingdom who lack the ability to reason on a high level.

the idea that human monogamy is wrong because its unnatural is at best misguided, and at worst dangerously imbecilic. belief in this suggests that we shouldn’t be held completely accountable for any sexual misdeed short of rape, a completely immature way of understanding our human selves.

“i cheated? so the hell what. you think tigers dont be trying to bone all the other tiger bitches in the jungle?? growl, growl, bitch. growl, growl!!!”

maybe it’s not natural for an animal to commit to just one sexual partner (and, btw, there are numerous species in the animal kingdom who practice monogamy. strangely enough, the reasons for this usually comes down to getting used to the smell of their mates shit), but a human being should know that it’s safer, healthier, and usually makes for a better environment to raise children.

now, am i suggesting that every one needs to run out and discontinue their unmonogamous ways, burning black books and putting entire 12 (wo)man rosters on waivers? hell no. (sh*t, i’m not, lol) just like college, wnba basketball, and mormon pu**y, monogamy isn’t always for everyone, and i understand that. all i’m saying is that the “monogamy is completely synthetic” argument is stupid as hell, and lazier than shaq’s mouth

now, excuse me while i forage for some grub.

—the champ

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Damon Young

Damon Young is the editor-in-chief of VSB. He is also a contributing editor for EBONY.com. He resides in Pittsburgh, and he really likes pancakes.

Previously

the v test

  • Don Giovanni

    ok!! seems that i’m the first to step to the plate!! first of all, i have had this conversation with many about how monogamy is an unnatural behavior formed by societal rules in order to control the lives of others! not saying that i’m parading around as a polygamist, but i do say it is unnatural for the fact tha we, as humans are attracted to a variety of people!! now, i am whole hearted in the belief that cheating is wrong, if you made a commitment to someone to be with that one (i keep my word no matter what)!! but the thing is that we were instilled with the notion to procreate with those that can insure that our lineage will survive throughout the ages!! we look for the best of the best and the highest of the high to get down with, not the opposite!! but whether it is right or wrong has to do with societal norms and cultural mores thats forced upon us!!

    • jevoie

      It doesn’t really seem like the point there was “society says it’s right, so it’s right”, but rather “there are reasons why monogamy is the preferred practice in human society, and some are quite practical”. He finished his essay with a bit about how monogamy isn’t for everyone, and your response seems kind of based on the idea he was trying to “convert” you, rather than put down an overly simplistic argument. Whatever you feel about monogamy, “monogamy is unnatural” IS an overly simplistic argument, just as almost all “____ is unnatural arguments” are overly simplistic arguments.

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

        i’m not saying he is trying to convert you, me or anyone else, nor am i saying that there is anything wrong with monogamy!! like he said, monogamy is the preferred practice in human society but only due to such things as fear, institutionalizations, etc. in today’s society and in our culture, assuming that you live in one of the more modernized and industrialized countries where one of the three major religions are practiced (and there is a correlation), we have been taught that this is the proper and correct way to live, ignoring our natural urges and submitting ourselves to our mate (singular)!! but in many countries where these aren’t key factors, you have polygamy being practiced because that was the tradition; that was the norm!! again, i am NOT saying that we are right because we have stepped out of the sahara and onto the concrete jungle or because we aren’t running around in loin cloths and barefooted, but i won’t say that those who practiced polygamy are wrong in their ways either!! if we were truly a monogamous creature, there would be no need to date around!! we would have smelled the scent of our significant others and have been right by their sides no matter what!! we wouldn’t turn our heads every time an attractive man or woman crossed our paths!! we wouldn’t have fantasies about persons other than our mates!! we choose to be monogamous because it is what is practiced in our respective cultures (again, assuming that you are in a culture that practices monogamy, which is a safe bet)!! it is simplistic to say that monogamy is the only way to be!! i can say that it is the safest way to be in society today, if you care about your life and health!!

        once again, i never said that it is wrong or right, yet it is a cultural and societal creation to keep and maintain order!! just look at marriage and divorce!! created by man to create order and maintain rule over society!! divorce didn’t come about until a king, unhappy with the catholic rule which didn’t allow for divorces and with his then wife, established the protestant church!! the rule was the dissolution of marriage could only happen when and only when a spouse died….and usually only when it was the wife has passed!! what is natural and unnatural is relative to what your beliefs and your moral standards are!! as for me, i am whole heartedly monogamous!! i only have sexual intercourse with one woman at a time!! i wasn’t blessed with a mutated gene causing me to have two phallus affording me the opportunity to have two women simultaneously!! plus, i only date one woman at a time!! do you know how much grief and strife you all cause?? i don’t like going through hardships with one woman, let alone 3!!

        • http://www.myspace.com/wudaman19 WuDaMan

          Yo Moses started the divorce thing. And Jesus said you could cold get out of a marriage for infadelity too.

          Back to the topic Jesus didn’t say anything about polygamy though.

        • http://www.myspace.com/wudaman19 WuDaMan

          Yo Moses started the divorce thing. And Jesus said you could cold get out of a marriage for infadelity too.

          Back to the topic Jesus didn’t say anything about polygamy though.

        • http://www.myspace.com/wudaman19 WuDaMan

          Yo Moses started the divorce thing. And Jesus said you could cold get out of a marriage for infadelity too.

          Back to the topic Jesus didn’t say anything about polygamy though.

          And about being multi phallused. I sometimes have this reoccuring dream where… Okay it started when I was a lil kid. In the dream I was covered in plugs and she was covered in sockets & we rolled around on each other plugging in. That was how it started who would have known it would keep coming back in diff. forms.

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            “And about being multi phallused. I sometimes have this reoccuring dream where… Okay it started when “I was a lil kid. In the dream I was covered in plugs and she was covered in sockets & we rolled around on each other plugging in.”

            …………

            • http://www.myspace.com/wudaman19 WuDaMan

              I know Champ. It freaks me out too. What was going on w/ my lil subconcious @ such a young age?

              • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

                “I know Champ. It freaks me out too. What was going on w/ my lil subconcious @ such a young age?”

                shit, i’m jealous actually. the only sexual dreams i had as a kid was about playing hide in go seek with rudy huxtable

              • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

                “I know Champ. It freaks me out too. What was going on w/ my lil subconcious @ such a young age?”

                shit, i’m jealous actually. the only sexual dreams i had as a kid was about playing hide in go seek with rudy huxtable

            • http://www.myspace.com/wudaman19 WuDaMan

              I know Champ. It freaks me out too. What was going on w/ my lil subconcious @ such a young age?

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            “And about being multi phallused. I sometimes have this reoccuring dream where… Okay it started when “I was a lil kid. In the dream I was covered in plugs and she was covered in sockets & we rolled around on each other plugging in.”

            …………

          • Gemini

            Wow….you really have some vivid dreams, lmao! What do you eat before you go to sleep?

            • http://www.myspace.com/wudaman19 WuDaMan

              must have been a stolen twinkie. Curse that creamy filling. Creapy thing is I think I was like 4 5 years old. When the dream comes back there aren’t as many plugs n sockets.

            • http://www.myspace.com/wudaman19 WuDaMan

              must have been a stolen twinkie. Curse that creamy filling. Creapy thing is I think I was like 4 5 years old. When the dream comes back there aren’t as many plugs n sockets.

          • Gemini

            Wow….you really have some vivid dreams, lmao! What do you eat before you go to sleep?

        • http://www.myspace.com/wudaman19 WuDaMan

          Yo Moses started the divorce thing. And Jesus said you could cold get out of a marriage for infadelity too.

          Back to the topic Jesus didn’t say anything about polygamy though.

          And about being multi phallused. I sometimes have this reoccuring dream where… Okay it started when I was a lil kid. In the dream I was covered in plugs and she was covered in sockets & we rolled around on each other plugging in. That was how it started who would have known it would keep coming back in diff. forms.

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

        i’m not saying he is trying to convert you, me or anyone else, nor am i saying that there is anything wrong with monogamy!! like he said, monogamy is the preferred practice in human society but only due to such things as fear, institutionalizations, etc. in today’s society and in our culture, assuming that you live in one of the more modernized and industrialized countries where one of the three major religions are practiced (and there is a correlation), we have been taught that this is the proper and correct way to live, ignoring our natural urges and submitting ourselves to our mate (singular)!! but in many countries where these aren’t key factors, you have polygamy being practiced because that was the tradition; that was the norm!! again, i am NOT saying that we are right because we have stepped out of the sahara and onto the concrete jungle or because we aren’t running around in loin cloths and barefooted, but i won’t say that those who practiced polygamy are wrong in their ways either!! if we were truly a monogamous creature, there would be no need to date around!! we would have smelled the scent of our significant others and have been right by their sides no matter what!! we wouldn’t turn our heads every time an attractive man or woman crossed our paths!! we wouldn’t have fantasies about persons other than our mates!! we choose to be monogamous because it is what is practiced in our respective cultures (again, assuming that you are in a culture that practices monogamy, which is a safe bet)!! it is simplistic to say that monogamy is the only way to be!! i can say that it is the safest way to be in society today, if you care about your life and health!!

        once again, i never said that it is wrong or right, yet it is a cultural and societal creation to keep and maintain order!! just look at marriage and divorce!! created by man to create order and maintain rule over society!! divorce didn’t come about until a king, unhappy with the catholic rule which didn’t allow for divorces and with his then wife, established the protestant church!! the rule was the dissolution of marriage could only happen when and only when a spouse died….and usually only when it was the wife has passed!! what is natural and unnatural is relative to what your beliefs and your moral standards are!! as for me, i am whole heartedly monogamous!! i only have sexual intercourse with one woman at a time!! i wasn’t blessed with a mutated gene causing me to have two phallus affording me the opportunity to have two women simultaneously!! plus, i only date one woman at a time!! do you know how much grief and strife you all cause?? i don’t like going through hardships with one woman, let alone 3!!

    • jevoie

      It doesn’t really seem like the point there was “society says it’s right, so it’s right”, but rather “there are reasons why monogamy is the preferred practice in human society, and some are quite practical”. He finished his essay with a bit about how monogamy isn’t for everyone, and your response seems kind of based on the idea he was trying to “convert” you, rather than put down an overly simplistic argument. Whatever you feel about monogamy, “monogamy is unnatural” IS an overly simplistic argument, just as almost all “____ is unnatural arguments” are overly simplistic arguments.

    • http://tiffanybbrown.com/ tiffany

      um. that was kind of his point. well, that and the fact that the “it’s unnatural” argument is the lazy way out.

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

        well, show me how it is natural!!

        • http://www.5OH7.com boom

          Derek Zoolander: So join now, ’cause at the Derek Zoolander Center For Kids Who Can’t Read Good And Wanna Learn To Do Other Stuff Good Too, we teach you that there’s more to life than just being really, really, really good looking. Right kids?

          • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

            classic

          • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

            classic

        • http://www.5OH7.com boom

          Derek Zoolander: So join now, ’cause at the Derek Zoolander Center For Kids Who Can’t Read Good And Wanna Learn To Do Other Stuff Good Too, we teach you that there’s more to life than just being really, really, really good looking. Right kids?

        • http://tiffanybbrown.com/ tiffany

          okay, i’ll show you how it is natural: we’ve got this higher-mental-capacity-thing that allows us to develop societies that are a little more organized and a little more complicated than “see hole, insert dick.”

          so, i’ll make the argument that creating societies with complex rules and hierarchies is what humans naturally do. ergo, “monogamy,” is “natural” because it’s one of our “rules.”

          • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

            Dolphins and mice are smart too
            see: Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy

          • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

            Dolphins and mice are smart too
            see: Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            “so, i’ll make the argument that creating societies with complex rules and hierarchies is what humans naturally do. ergo, “monogamy,” is “natural” because it’s one of our “rules.””

            hmmm…interesting take and shit

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            “so, i’ll make the argument that creating societies with complex rules and hierarchies is what humans naturally do. ergo, “monogamy,” is “natural” because it’s one of our “rules.””

            hmmm…interesting take and shit

          • http://goodeness.blogspot.com GOODENess

            we’ve got this higher-mental-capacity-thing that allows us to develop societies that are a little more organized and a little more complicated than “see hole, insert dick.”

            @ TIFF-eriffic! you are a fuggin genius!

          • http://goodeness.blogspot.com GOODENess

            we’ve got this higher-mental-capacity-thing that allows us to develop societies that are a little more organized and a little more complicated than “see hole, insert dick.”

            @ TIFF-eriffic! you are a fuggin genius!

          • ForReal

            “so, i’ll make the argument that creating societies with complex rules and hierarchies is what humans naturally do. ergo, “monogamy,” is “natural” because it’s one of our “rules.””
            Welllll! To true. I didn’t see this when I wrote my comment; couldn’t agree more.

          • ForReal

            “so, i’ll make the argument that creating societies with complex rules and hierarchies is what humans naturally do. ergo, “monogamy,” is “natural” because it’s one of our “rules.””
            Welllll! To true. I didn’t see this when I wrote my comment; couldn’t agree more.

          • genius khan

            Tiff, sup luv.

            Tiff makes a motion and ForReal seconds:

            “so, i’ll make the argument that creating societies with complex rules and hierarchies is what humans naturally do. ergo, “monogamy,” is “natural” because it’s one of our “rules.”

            this may be a fallacious argument.

            If making rules is natural for human beings does that really make every rule a human makes “natural?” (i.e. monogamy)

            Q: which is more telling: (generally and across the board, nothing specifically to do with momogamy) what people say or what a people do?

            engage me… (not atrimony either LOL!)

          • genius khan

            Tiff, sup luv.

            Tiff makes a motion and ForReal seconds:

            “so, i’ll make the argument that creating societies with complex rules and hierarchies is what humans naturally do. ergo, “monogamy,” is “natural” because it’s one of our “rules.”

            this may be a fallacious argument.

            If making rules is natural for human beings does that really make every rule a human makes “natural?” (i.e. monogamy)

            Q: which is more telling: (generally and across the board, nothing specifically to do with momogamy) what people say or what a people do?

            engage me… (not atrimony either LOL!)

          • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

            sorry to be the bearer of bad news but most societies that built civilization as we know it were not monogamous. Including and not limited to the native peoples on all continents

          • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

            sorry to be the bearer of bad news but most societies that built civilization as we know it were not monogamous. Including and not limited to the native peoples on all continents

        • http://tiffanybbrown.com/ tiffany

          okay, i’ll show you how it is natural: we’ve got this higher-mental-capacity-thing that allows us to develop societies that are a little more organized and a little more complicated than “see hole, insert dick.”

          so, i’ll make the argument that creating societies with complex rules and hierarchies is what humans naturally do. ergo, “monogamy,” is “natural” because it’s one of our “rules.”

        • teeny

          Desire is natural.
          So is jealousy, possessiveness, anger, rage.

          oh. and hey. while we’re at it, so are crabs.

          The human capacity to feel and to reason make arguments like these quite obsolete. Monogamy might not be everybody’s truth but I’ve known men who were more ready to settle down and make family’s than 1950’s house wives.

          don, I think you should read up a bit on your science too. There is an article about finding mates (and hence love) based on voice, smell, height and other instinctual cues that pokes holes straight through your 10,000 word essay.

          I can send it to you if you’d like.

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            ‘oh. and hey. while we’re at it, so are crabs.’

            i’d pay someone 52 dollars to rock a “crabs are natural” t-shirt, and an extra 27 dollars if they spend all day scratching themselves

            • http://goodeness.blogspot.com GOODENess

              i’d pay someone 52 dollars to rock a “crabs are natural” t-shirt, and an extra 27 dollars if they spend all day scratching themselves

              @CHAMP…gas is high as giraffae snatch…I drive an SUV…where do I sign?? (scratch, giggle, scratch)

            • http://goodeness.blogspot.com GOODENess

              i’d pay someone 52 dollars to rock a “crabs are natural” t-shirt, and an extra 27 dollars if they spend all day scratching themselves

              @CHAMP…gas is high as giraffae snatch…I drive an SUV…where do I sign?? (scratch, giggle, scratch)

            • miss t-lee

              i’d pay someone 52 dollars to rock a “crabs are natural” t-shirt, and an extra 27 dollars if they spend all day scratching themselves

              I’m a cancer and I have natural hair so this could work. Get my $52 ready!!!!

              Now that extra $27—I’m let you keep that…lol

              • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

                “I’m a cancer and I have natural hair so this could work”

                *chuckling*

              • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

                “I’m a cancer and I have natural hair so this could work”

                *chuckling*

            • miss t-lee

              i’d pay someone 52 dollars to rock a “crabs are natural” t-shirt, and an extra 27 dollars if they spend all day scratching themselves

              I’m a cancer and I have natural hair so this could work. Get my $52 ready!!!!

              Now that extra $27—I’m let you keep that…lol

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            ‘oh. and hey. while we’re at it, so are crabs.’

            i’d pay someone 52 dollars to rock a “crabs are natural” t-shirt, and an extra 27 dollars if they spend all day scratching themselves

          • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

            i was responding to what she said about what champ said!!! its probably the same article i gave my kids to read!! did it come from JAMA or IJBS??

          • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

            i was responding to what she said about what champ said!!! its probably the same article i gave my kids to read!! did it come from JAMA or IJBS??

        • teeny

          Desire is natural.
          So is jealousy, possessiveness, anger, rage.

          oh. and hey. while we’re at it, so are crabs.

          The human capacity to feel and to reason make arguments like these quite obsolete. Monogamy might not be everybody’s truth but I’ve known men who were more ready to settle down and make family’s than 1950’s house wives.

          don, I think you should read up a bit on your science too. There is an article about finding mates (and hence love) based on voice, smell, height and other instinctual cues that pokes holes straight through your 10,000 word essay.

          I can send it to you if you’d like.

        • genius khan

          gettem Giovanni the Don. salute!

        • genius khan

          gettem Giovanni the Don. salute!

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

        well, show me how it is natural!!

    • http://tiffanybbrown.com/ tiffany

      um. that was kind of his point. well, that and the fact that the “it’s unnatural” argument is the lazy way out.

    • http://www.sheliagoss.com/blog Shelia

      “monogamy is an unnatural behavior formed by societal rules in order to control the lives of others!”

      Don, this theory sounds like it came from someone who likes to have his cake, ice-cream and pie and throw in a few cup-cakes too. (Blame it on The Champ for me using the food analogy…smile).

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

        nope…it just is what it is!! i hate sweets and i’m lactose intolerant as well!!

        • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

          “nope…it just is what it is!! i hate sweets and i’m lactose intolerant as well!!”

          i’m lactose intolerant too, but i just dont give a f*ck

          • shay

            “i’m lactose intolerant too, but i just dont give a f*ck”

            what the hell made this so funny to me?

          • shay

            “i’m lactose intolerant too, but i just dont give a f*ck”

            what the hell made this so funny to me?

        • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

          “nope…it just is what it is!! i hate sweets and i’m lactose intolerant as well!!”

          i’m lactose intolerant too, but i just dont give a f*ck

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

        nope…it just is what it is!! i hate sweets and i’m lactose intolerant as well!!

    • http://www.sheliagoss.com/blog Shelia

      “monogamy is an unnatural behavior formed by societal rules in order to control the lives of others!”

      Don, this theory sounds like it came from someone who likes to have his cake, ice-cream and pie and throw in a few cup-cakes too. (Blame it on The Champ for me using the food analogy…smile).

  • Don Giovanni

    ok!! seems that i’m the first to step to the plate!! first of all, i have had this conversation with many about how monogamy is an unnatural behavior formed by societal rules in order to control the lives of others! not saying that i’m parading around as a polygamist, but i do say it is unnatural for the fact tha we, as humans are attracted to a variety of people!! now, i am whole hearted in the belief that cheating is wrong, if you made a commitment to someone to be with that one (i keep my word no matter what)!! but the thing is that we were instilled with the notion to procreate with those that can insure that our lineage will survive throughout the ages!! we look for the best of the best and the highest of the high to get down with, not the opposite!! but whether it is right or wrong has to do with societal norms and cultural mores thats forced upon us!!

  • Maasai girl

    Monogamy may not be for everyone but neither is polygamy in the sense that it was meant. Coming from a country where I see it all around, it’s intention is. In the old times if you were wealthy yes, and it still happens now. But the main purpose was because society valued it’s children and families, all the kids accepted that they had many mothers who were as involved in raising you as your mother and your dad was also involved in raising all of you. Ideally if the mother’s had any drama it was solved between them and not involving the kids. As there was a firm social structure in place to help sort out differences and maintain a level of fairness. Hell one of my workmates professes that he is a polygamist in and out and yes he believes in fairness……… I guess whatever rocks your boat……… However as humans sometimes we want it all and we don’t want to take responsibility for the things we do even though at the time we really really want to do themcantthinkaboutanythingelse. For me it just comes down to knowing where we stand and the consequences of our actions. Polygamy was destroyed by all those men, who would ‘marry/ live with a woman ( can be classified as a customary marriage in Kenya) and then bizounce and next thing you know he married someone else in church and left you in a lurch, plus those women ( golddiggers )who will do everything in their power to get a baller pretend to be okay with being wife no.2,3, 4, and then proceed to evict previous tenants. Hell you knew what you were getting into………… so why play dirty?As for those who say they believe in monogamy then summarily play, cheat, forget they are in a relationship……….. just kick them out or if you lived in Kenya you could sue them for promising to marry you then proceed to clean them out…………… Sorry fellas it doesn’t work the other way;-) Nevertheless either way relationships are complex and everyone has what works for them from the swinging types to the till death………… I’m still figuring out where I fall……..

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

      “Monogamy may not be for everyone but neither is polygamy in the sense that it was meant.”

      its funny. alot of guys dont realize this but polygamy is the absolute worst social construct for men. i addressed this in the comments here a month or so ago, but i just felt the need to reiterate

      • jevoie

        I have an Indonesian friend whose great-grandfather had ten wives. By all accounts, this did not spell good things for him. She phrases this as “pussy-whipped times ten”.

      • jevoie

        I have an Indonesian friend whose great-grandfather had ten wives. By all accounts, this did not spell good things for him. She phrases this as “pussy-whipped times ten”.

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

      “Monogamy may not be for everyone but neither is polygamy in the sense that it was meant.”

      its funny. alot of guys dont realize this but polygamy is the absolute worst social construct for men. i addressed this in the comments here a month or so ago, but i just felt the need to reiterate

  • Maasai girl

    Monogamy may not be for everyone but neither is polygamy in the sense that it was meant. Coming from a country where I see it all around, it’s intention is. In the old times if you were wealthy yes, and it still happens now. But the main purpose was because society valued it’s children and families, all the kids accepted that they had many mothers who were as involved in raising you as your mother and your dad was also involved in raising all of you. Ideally if the mother’s had any drama it was solved between them and not involving the kids. As there was a firm social structure in place to help sort out differences and maintain a level of fairness. Hell one of my workmates professes that he is a polygamist in and out and yes he believes in fairness……… I guess whatever rocks your boat……… However as humans sometimes we want it all and we don’t want to take responsibility for the things we do even though at the time we really really want to do themcantthinkaboutanythingelse. For me it just comes down to knowing where we stand and the consequences of our actions. Polygamy was destroyed by all those men, who would ‘marry/ live with a woman ( can be classified as a customary marriage in Kenya) and then bizounce and next thing you know he married someone else in church and left you in a lurch, plus those women ( golddiggers )who will do everything in their power to get a baller pretend to be okay with being wife no.2,3, 4, and then proceed to evict previous tenants. Hell you knew what you were getting into………… so why play dirty?As for those who say they believe in monogamy then summarily play, cheat, forget they are in a relationship……….. just kick them out or if you lived in Kenya you could sue them for promising to marry you then proceed to clean them out…………… Sorry fellas it doesn’t work the other way;-) Nevertheless either way relationships are complex and everyone has what works for them from the swinging types to the till death………… I’m still figuring out where I fall……..

  • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

    You watch Girlfriends? thats messed up

    • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

      @ deviant~~~i have to agree with you!! i had to watch 2.75 episodes which were completely unfunny and slightly horrible!! 2 of course were with the girl i was dating at the time, and the other was because i was too lazy to get up and change the channel manually when the batteries of the remote died!! i did get up and change the batteries during the 3rd commercial break which allowed me the ability to surf the channels like i normally do during the nip/tuck, the shield, and entourage off season!! hell, the new show “wipeout” has been giving me plenty of entertainment on tuesday nights until my shows come back!!

      • miss t-lee

        I love the big balls…that ish kills me everytime.

        • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

          HA HA HA!!! I HAVE GOT TO BE ON IT FOR NEXT SEASON!!! I JUST WANT TO MAKE IT ACROSS THE BIG BALLS!!!

          • miss t-lee

            I give props to anyone who even attempts that show. The commentators are equally evil as well.

            • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

              john and john henson….they crack me up!! it’s a shame that i remember their names!!!

              • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

                john anderson and john henson!! They are going to talk about my @$$ badly!!

              • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

                john anderson and john henson!! They are going to talk about my @$$ badly!!

              • miss t-lee

                I’m gonna talk about you too. LOL

              • miss t-lee

                I’m gonna talk about you too. LOL

            • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

              john and john henson….they crack me up!! it’s a shame that i remember their names!!!

          • miss t-lee

            I give props to anyone who even attempts that show. The commentators are equally evil as well.

        • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

          HA HA HA!!! I HAVE GOT TO BE ON IT FOR NEXT SEASON!!! I JUST WANT TO MAKE IT ACROSS THE BIG BALLS!!!

      • miss t-lee

        I love the big balls…that ish kills me everytime.

      • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

        that show is pretty horrible…I get lazy too but I can always get motivated enough to change the channel or leave the roon when that show is on.

      • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

        that show is pretty horrible…I get lazy too but I can always get motivated enough to change the channel or leave the roon when that show is on.

      • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

        “I love the big balls”

        “I JUST WANT TO MAKE IT ACROSS THE BIG BALLS!!!”

        T shirt anyone?

      • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

        “I love the big balls”

        “I JUST WANT TO MAKE IT ACROSS THE BIG BALLS!!!”

        T shirt anyone?

    • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er Don Giovanni

      @ deviant~~~i have to agree with you!! i had to watch 2.75 episodes which were completely unfunny and slightly horrible!! 2 of course were with the girl i was dating at the time, and the other was because i was too lazy to get up and change the channel manually when the batteries of the remote died!! i did get up and change the batteries during the 3rd commercial break which allowed me the ability to surf the channels like i normally do during the nip/tuck, the shield, and entourage off season!! hell, the new show “wipeout” has been giving me plenty of entertainment on tuesday nights until my shows come back!!

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

      you know what, i have watched a few episodes, one, because the show isn’t terrible and also because its very difficult for me to figure out who’s the most physically attractive woman on the show, so i watch to form “yay-nay” arguments in my head.

      actually, thats a lie. its not a question for me. its persia white. i just feel bad admitting that because it makes it seem like i’m colorstruck, lol.

      everytime i watch that show i feel like its a social experiment on attractiveness, casting 4 somewhat equally attractive black women of different shades, making the lightest skinned one a tad more atttractive than the rest, and seeing who would actually admit that.

      • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

        ok yeah I get that but I find them annoying so I cant do my research for too long. And they dont show enough ass shots. How can you have a show with four black women and not throw a bone to the males that may be watching? Where is the Soul Train cameraman when you need him? Is it bad that I demand camerashots of ass? I think not.

        • Akshone

          All that @ss Joan got and you missed it???

          • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

            I didnt miss it Im saying they dont show it enough

          • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

            I didnt miss it Im saying they dont show it enough

        • Akshone

          All that @ss Joan got and you missed it???

      • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

        ok yeah I get that but I find them annoying so I cant do my research for too long. And they dont show enough ass shots. How can you have a show with four black women and not throw a bone to the males that may be watching? Where is the Soul Train cameraman when you need him? Is it bad that I demand camerashots of ass? I think not.

      • miss t-lee

        Persia is easily the prettiest girl on the show.
        Hands down.

        • Akshone

          I agree, but Lynn came into her looks on the show as the seasons progressed. Now William’s wife? Ever since she came on the show, she’s had me open.

          • ForReal

            i don’t know if her breasts are really saggy or they just put her in an unfortunate bathing suit, but there was one episode in the hot tub when she was first dating william where they just did not do that woman right! pretty face though.

          • ForReal

            i don’t know if her breasts are really saggy or they just put her in an unfortunate bathing suit, but there was one episode in the hot tub when she was first dating william where they just did not do that woman right! pretty face though.

        • Akshone

          I agree, but Lynn came into her looks on the show as the seasons progressed. Now William’s wife? Ever since she came on the show, she’s had me open.

      • miss t-lee

        Persia is easily the prettiest girl on the show.
        Hands down.

      • ForReal

        See, i think Maya (Golden) is really pretty.

        • Akshone

          Cute face, but she has the body of a 12-year-old boy…not a good look.

          • ForReal

            LOL..she’s a little small, i’ll give you that!

          • ForReal

            LOL..she’s a little small, i’ll give you that!

          • Leila

            “Cute face, but she has the body of a 12-year-old boy…not a good look”

            Ouch!

          • Leila

            “Cute face, but she has the body of a 12-year-old boy…not a good look”

            Ouch!

        • Akshone

          Cute face, but she has the body of a 12-year-old boy…not a good look.

      • ForReal

        See, i think Maya (Golden) is really pretty.

      • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

        they can all get it.

        • No More Heroes

          Not Joan. I would have to be pretty drunk for that.

          • http://myspace.com/time4sumakshone Akshone

            Really??? She was always kinda hot to me, in that bohemian/metropolitan/corporate girl type of look she had going…she has slacked off lately though. Now she kinda reminds me of my 1st grade teacher back in the day.

          • http://myspace.com/time4sumakshone Akshone

            Really??? She was always kinda hot to me, in that bohemian/metropolitan/corporate girl type of look she had going…she has slacked off lately though. Now she kinda reminds me of my 1st grade teacher back in the day.

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            joan would actually be the first one out of that crew to get it, mainly because of the ass and the fact that she looks like the type to cry when she c*ms

            • miss t-lee

              Wow…

            • miss t-lee

              Wow…

            • http://www.myspace.com/chicanextdoor miss patterson

              ……………
              Someone needs to pray with that left hand again.

            • http://www.myspace.com/chicanextdoor miss patterson

              ……………
              Someone needs to pray with that left hand again.

            • JBoogie

              damn…i wasn’t ready lol

            • JBoogie

              damn…i wasn’t ready lol

            • Gemini

              Oh wow, ok…….

            • Gemini

              Oh wow, ok…….

            • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

              …what, lol?

              some women just have that look, and she’s one of them

            • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

              …what, lol?

              some women just have that look, and she’s one of them

            • shay

              you’re not the first person ive met thats into that sorta thing.

            • shay

              you’re not the first person ive met thats into that sorta thing.

            • http://liffy.blogspot.com Luvvie

              LMAO Champ.

            • http://liffy.blogspot.com Luvvie

              LMAO Champ.

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            joan would actually be the first one out of that crew to get it, mainly because of the ass and the fact that she looks like the type to cry when she c*ms

        • No More Heroes

          Not Joan. I would have to be pretty drunk for that.

      • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

        they can all get it.

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

        I’m glad that you realizes it was persia that made you watch it!! she was worth the 3/4 of an episode!!

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

        I’m glad that you realizes it was persia that made you watch it!! she was worth the 3/4 of an episode!!

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

      you know what, i have watched a few episodes, one, because the show isn’t terrible and also because its very difficult for me to figure out who’s the most physically attractive woman on the show, so i watch to form “yay-nay” arguments in my head.

      actually, thats a lie. its not a question for me. its persia white. i just feel bad admitting that because it makes it seem like i’m colorstruck, lol.

      everytime i watch that show i feel like its a social experiment on attractiveness, casting 4 somewhat equally attractive black women of different shades, making the lightest skinned one a tad more atttractive than the rest, and seeing who would actually admit that.

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      Girlfriends didn’t actually start out bad. When it first started it was entertaining and serviceable. Basically the shit was competent. However (and I wrote about this somewhere), it seems like they weren’t prepared for a contract extension on the show and were granted additional seasons that they had NO f*cking clue what to do with so the show got increasingly stupid and ridiculous to where it was borderline embarassing…

      Joan as Spiderman in her home hanging from the ceiling, anyone?? get.the.f*ck.out.of.here.

      It’s not their fault, they wrote the perfect 2-season show.

      As far as the chicks go, I don’t find any of them to be that attractive, Persia White included. She’s only hot b/c the others aren’t. Kind of an addition-by-subtraction thing…or better yet, it’s positive because it’s not negative.

      • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

        “it seems like they weren’t prepared for a contract extension on the show and were granted additional seasons that they had NO f*cking clue what to do with so the show”

        theres a few shows that are guilty of this, with “twin peaks” being the all-time most flagrant

        • No More Heroes

          Unfortunately I think this is whats going to happen to one of my favorite shows “Heroes”

        • No More Heroes

          Unfortunately I think this is whats going to happen to one of my favorite shows “Heroes”

      • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

        “it seems like they weren’t prepared for a contract extension on the show and were granted additional seasons that they had NO f*cking clue what to do with so the show”

        theres a few shows that are guilty of this, with “twin peaks” being the all-time most flagrant

      • Dorian G.

        I guess you don’t like dark skin women

        • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

          “I guess you don’t like dark skin women”

          i like all shades of black women. its just that, imo, the lighter skinned leads on girlfriends are more attractive than the darker-skinned ones.

          now, if either theresa, “i took the best red carpet picture of all-time *http://www.jsrpages.co.uk/scansr/randle/Theresa%20Randle1v.jpg*” randle, kenya moore, taral hicks, robinne lee, bria myles, tatyana ali, or ananda lewis were cast as leads on that show, than i’d be singing a different tune

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            oh, and how could i forget maia campbell (well, at least before she became a crackhead)

          • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

            oh, and how could i forget maia campbell (well, at least before she became a crackhead)

          • Dorian G.

            Sorry I was replying to Panama. He said he didn’t think any of them were attractive. I’m like not even the one with the lips?

            Oh and me and Bria Myles will be getting married soon. She just has to meet me and its over.

            • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

              it has nothing to do with dark skinned women. it has to do with those particular women on that show…of which i dont think any are attractive. i mean, they’re all, okay, but none of them would make me do a double take.

              and i love all women. i’ve dated all over the colored spectrum, quite successfully and happily.

              them chicks on that show…just not hot.

              • Dorian G.

                Ok thats fair. To each his own, when I first saw girlfriends (in passing, i never sat down to tune in or anything like that) I was like Kanye asking bout “the dark skinneded one”. Some things just ain’t what you find hot. I know thats how I am about Jennifer Aniston (an opinion which almost got me fired, but thats another story for another day)

              • Dorian G.

                Ok thats fair. To each his own, when I first saw girlfriends (in passing, i never sat down to tune in or anything like that) I was like Kanye asking bout “the dark skinneded one”. Some things just ain’t what you find hot. I know thats how I am about Jennifer Aniston (an opinion which almost got me fired, but thats another story for another day)

              • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

                @ Dorian

                your post should start…”How Jennifer Aniston almost got me fired”

              • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

                @ Dorian

                your post should start…”How Jennifer Aniston almost got me fired”

            • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

              it has nothing to do with dark skinned women. it has to do with those particular women on that show…of which i dont think any are attractive. i mean, they’re all, okay, but none of them would make me do a double take.

              and i love all women. i’ve dated all over the colored spectrum, quite successfully and happily.

              them chicks on that show…just not hot.

            • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

              ‘Oh and me and Bria Myles will be getting married soon. She just has to meet me and its over.’

              fine. take her…as long as i still get to marry her ass.

            • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

              ‘Oh and me and Bria Myles will be getting married soon. She just has to meet me and its over.’

              fine. take her…as long as i still get to marry her ass.

            • shay

              i heard her ass looks like a bag of rocks. beware the airbrushing.

              • Dorian G.

                Nah one of my boys works for a photography company that she has done work with in the past. He said its as good as advertised in person. And she’s mad cool. He said unlike some of the others you actually feel like you might have a shot with this one. Then again she’s been my “favorite” for a while now so he could have just said this to keep my schoolboy dreams alive.

              • Dorian G.

                Nah one of my boys works for a photography company that she has done work with in the past. He said its as good as advertised in person. And she’s mad cool. He said unlike some of the others you actually feel like you might have a shot with this one. Then again she’s been my “favorite” for a while now so he could have just said this to keep my schoolboy dreams alive.

              • shay

                well i know someone who has seen it too and he said she has enough cellulite to be a turn-off, but i guess thats his opinion… once i saw deelishis come outside without her belly makeup on and her tummy is very flat but her skin looks like an onion, i have forever given up on magazine photography. its all an illusion.
                i guess i should stop now before i get rotten tomatoes thrown at me.

              • shay

                well i know someone who has seen it too and he said she has enough cellulite to be a turn-off, but i guess thats his opinion… once i saw deelishis come outside without her belly makeup on and her tummy is very flat but her skin looks like an onion, i have forever given up on magazine photography. its all an illusion.
                i guess i should stop now before i get rotten tomatoes thrown at me.

            • shay

              i heard her ass looks like a bag of rocks. beware the airbrushing.

          • Dorian G.

            Sorry I was replying to Panama. He said he didn’t think any of them were attractive. I’m like not even the one with the lips?

            Oh and me and Bria Myles will be getting married soon. She just has to meet me and its over.

          • Aristocrat

            Wow, that Theresa Randle pic is spectacular…Carry on! Thanks, Champ

          • Aristocrat

            Wow, that Theresa Randle pic is spectacular…Carry on! Thanks, Champ

        • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

          “I guess you don’t like dark skin women”

          i like all shades of black women. its just that, imo, the lighter skinned leads on girlfriends are more attractive than the darker-skinned ones.

          now, if either theresa, “i took the best red carpet picture of all-time *http://www.jsrpages.co.uk/scansr/randle/Theresa%20Randle1v.jpg*” randle, kenya moore, taral hicks, robinne lee, bria myles, tatyana ali, or ananda lewis were cast as leads on that show, than i’d be singing a different tune

      • Dorian G.

        I guess you don’t like dark skin women

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

        “She’s only hot b/c the others aren’t. Kind of an addition-by-subtraction thing…or better yet, it’s positive because it’s not negative.”

        just pulled up a cast picture and i have to agree with you!! its like picking a 5 out of a sea of 2’s and 3’s!! when your options are limited then you take the best of the rest!!

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

        “She’s only hot b/c the others aren’t. Kind of an addition-by-subtraction thing…or better yet, it’s positive because it’s not negative.”

        just pulled up a cast picture and i have to agree with you!! its like picking a 5 out of a sea of 2’s and 3’s!! when your options are limited then you take the best of the rest!!

      • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

        jump the shark much?

        http://www.jumptheshark.com/

        I’m about to age myself. Remember when fonzie jumped the shark on Happy Days…well all TV shows have their jump the shark moments, you know that moment where it reaches its peak and doesnt know where to go

      • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

        jump the shark much?

        http://www.jumptheshark.com/

        I’m about to age myself. Remember when fonzie jumped the shark on Happy Days…well all TV shows have their jump the shark moments, you know that moment where it reaches its peak and doesnt know where to go

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      Girlfriends didn’t actually start out bad. When it first started it was entertaining and serviceable. Basically the shit was competent. However (and I wrote about this somewhere), it seems like they weren’t prepared for a contract extension on the show and were granted additional seasons that they had NO f*cking clue what to do with so the show got increasingly stupid and ridiculous to where it was borderline embarassing…

      Joan as Spiderman in her home hanging from the ceiling, anyone?? get.the.f*ck.out.of.here.

      It’s not their fault, they wrote the perfect 2-season show.

      As far as the chicks go, I don’t find any of them to be that attractive, Persia White included. She’s only hot b/c the others aren’t. Kind of an addition-by-subtraction thing…or better yet, it’s positive because it’s not negative.

    • JBoogie

      Am I one of the only black women who’s never really watched/cared much for the show? I tried a couple of times…couldn’t get into it and turned it after like 15 minutes.

      • Leila

        I liked the show at first, but they should have cancelled it after Toni left the show. It wasn’t the same without her. I like The Game better.

        • Bougie1

          I concur, Leila…. I loved Toni.

          The Game on the other hand it was a little slow for me to get into however since the dumping of Derwin I have been hooked!

        • Bougie1

          I concur, Leila…. I loved Toni.

          The Game on the other hand it was a little slow for me to get into however since the dumping of Derwin I have been hooked!

        • miss t-lee

          The Game–that’s my junk right there.
          I’m not a huge Girlfriends fan, I only watched when I had nothing else to watch.
          Now SATC–that’s my junk for real!!! I’m even waiting on the sequel to the movie.

          • JBoogie

            I was like that with SATC at first…then I watched an episode, got hooked, and it was a wrap. Girlfriends…naw, just couldn’t do it.

          • JBoogie

            I was like that with SATC at first…then I watched an episode, got hooked, and it was a wrap. Girlfriends…naw, just couldn’t do it.

        • miss t-lee

          The Game–that’s my junk right there.
          I’m not a huge Girlfriends fan, I only watched when I had nothing else to watch.
          Now SATC–that’s my junk for real!!! I’m even waiting on the sequel to the movie.

        • http://liffy.blogspot.com Luvvie

          The Game is THAT bizness!!

        • http://liffy.blogspot.com Luvvie

          The Game is THAT bizness!!

      • Leila

        I liked the show at first, but they should have cancelled it after Toni left the show. It wasn’t the same without her. I like The Game better.

      • miss kate

        nope, I’m in the “don’t get it” club, too.

        but I loved SATC. smh

      • miss kate

        nope, I’m in the “don’t get it” club, too.

        but I loved SATC. smh

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

        well, the show was a Kelsey Grammer creation!!

        • miss t-lee

          The Game is a Kelsey Grammer show too, and it doesn’t suck.
          not an excuse..lol

        • miss t-lee

          The Game is a Kelsey Grammer show too, and it doesn’t suck.
          not an excuse..lol

      • http://www.myspace.com/ka6sp9er don giovanni

        well, the show was a Kelsey Grammer creation!!

      • http://freetherapyorelse.blogspot.com MsSula

        No, you are definitely not.

        Couldn’t follow it. A show has to do more than cast people who look like me to entice me. I found it a tad vapid and somewhat too stereotypical for me to care…

      • http://freetherapyorelse.blogspot.com MsSula

        No, you are definitely not.

        Couldn’t follow it. A show has to do more than cast people who look like me to entice me. I found it a tad vapid and somewhat too stereotypical for me to care…

    • JBoogie

      Am I one of the only black women who’s never really watched/cared much for the show? I tried a couple of times…couldn’t get into it and turned it after like 15 minutes.

  • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

    You watch Girlfriends? thats messed up

  • miss t-lee

    So you’re an OZ fan too?
    Monogamy—yeah it could happen.

    • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

      OZ was a great show but there were some aspects of the show I could’ve gone without seeing. Adebisi was a ruthless bastard tho. He gave a dude AIDS by pricking him with a needle. Just evil.

      • miss t-lee

        It was an evil show. I have a couple of seasons on DVD. There was plenty that I could have gone without seeing especially the…you know…
        Like Champ says—it’s reminded me to stay on the “straight and narrow” many times.

        • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

          no one wants to go to pound-me-in-the-ass prison

          • miss t-lee

            Never a good look.

          • miss t-lee

            Never a good look.

        • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

          no one wants to go to pound-me-in-the-ass prison

      • miss t-lee

        It was an evil show. I have a couple of seasons on DVD. There was plenty that I could have gone without seeing especially the…you know…
        Like Champ says—it’s reminded me to stay on the “straight and narrow” many times.

    • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

      OZ was a great show but there were some aspects of the show I could’ve gone without seeing. Adebisi was a ruthless bastard tho. He gave a dude AIDS by pricking him with a needle. Just evil.

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

      i watched more than a few episodes, but i could never really get into it because its a bit too melodramatic for me. oh, and the anal rapes made it tough for me to stomach too. yup. melodrama and anal rape

      • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

        the manlove didnt bother you cause I found that a lil diffucult to watch dudes making out

        • miss t-lee

          I found that difficult myself.

        • miss t-lee

          I found that difficult myself.

      • http://insidethemindofadeviant.wordpress.com Deviant

        the manlove didnt bother you cause I found that a lil diffucult to watch dudes making out

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

      i watched more than a few episodes, but i could never really get into it because its a bit too melodramatic for me. oh, and the anal rapes made it tough for me to stomach too. yup. melodrama and anal rape

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      I think all potential criminals should be forced to watch the entire series of Oz as a method of “scared straight” or some such shit.

      If prison is one iota of what happens there i don’t need or want no parts of that shit.

      Jail…is that bullshit.

      • genius khan

        T-Shirt! shout to Panama. i see ya.

        Jail, is that bullshit!

        not sure i want to wear it but… jail is certainly that bullshit. i’m not fuc*ing with it!

        LOL!!!!!!!!

      • genius khan

        T-Shirt! shout to Panama. i see ya.

        Jail, is that bullshit!

        not sure i want to wear it but… jail is certainly that bullshit. i’m not fuc*ing with it!

        LOL!!!!!!!!

      • shay

        cosign on “Jail.. is that Bullshit ” as a t-shirt quote

      • shay

        cosign on “Jail.. is that Bullshit ” as a t-shirt quote

      • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

        “I think all potential criminals should be forced to watch the entire series of Oz as a method of “scared straight” or some such shit.”

        And “American Me”

        the prison and rape scene in that movie are the reason I have only been able to watch that movie once

        • miss t-lee

          And “American Me”

          Oh snap!!! I forgot about this movie.
          That scene was brutal.

        • miss t-lee

          And “American Me”

          Oh snap!!! I forgot about this movie.
          That scene was brutal.

      • http://www.myspace.com/circa1908 Intellectual Hedonist

        “I think all potential criminals should be forced to watch the entire series of Oz as a method of “scared straight” or some such shit.”

        And “American Me”

        the prison and rape scene in that movie are the reason I have only been able to watch that movie once

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com Panama Jackson

      I think all potential criminals should be forced to watch the entire series of Oz as a method of “scared straight” or some such shit.

      If prison is one iota of what happens there i don’t need or want no parts of that shit.

      Jail…is that bullshit.

  • miss t-lee

    So you’re an OZ fan too?
    Monogamy—yeah it could happen.

  • Raqi

    Champ I am soooo glad you posted this.

    And even more ecstatic that you stated “and it’s idiotic to compare our sexual selves to other species in the animal kingdom who lack the ability to reason on a high level.”

    I get so freaking tired of people trying to justify traitorous activities by comparing themselves to untamed and uncivilized beast. I mean really, is that how you want to be tagged? With the intelligence and scruples of a ravenous brute?

    Why does the need to connect with every thing one is attracted to only apply to sexual lust? Those very same people manage to find a way to refrain from…let’s say…compulsive buying.

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

      ‘Champ I am soooo glad you posted this. ‘

      thank you. i’m so glad i could make you glad and shit

    • http://verysmartbrothas.com The Champ

      ‘Champ I am soooo glad you posted this. ‘

      thank you. i’m so glad i could make you glad and shit

    • http://tiffanybbrown.com/ tiffany

      “and it’s idiotic to compare our sexual selves to other species in the animal kingdom who lack the ability to reason on a high level.”

      yep. not to mention that if you wanted to make that comparison, we could be here all day with a list of species that *do* practice monogamy — lifelong monogamy. (there are natural examples of masturbation, homosexuality and bisexuality too, actually.)

    • http://tiffanybbrown.com/ tiffany

      “and it’s idiotic to compare our sexual selves to other species in the animal kingdom who lack the ability to reason on a high level.”

      yep. not to mention that if you wanted to make that comparison, we could be here all day with a list of species that *do* practice monogamy — lifelong monogamy. (there are natural examples of masturbation, homosexuality and bisexuality too, actually.)

    • ForReal

      “Why does the need to connect with every thing one is attracted to only apply to sexual lust? Those very same people manage to find a way to refrain from…let’s say…compulsive buying.”
      Exactly.

    • ForReal

      “Why does the need to connect with every thing one is attracted to only apply to sexual lust? Those very same people manage to find a way to refrain from…let’s say…compulsive buying.”
      Exactly.

    • genius khan

      Raq, for the record khan doesn’t think he could stomach being in an open relationship where my woman partner can sleep with another man. i’m just not there yet but…

      Compulsive behavior is behavior which a person does “compulsively”, i.e., not because he enjoys it but because he feels he “has to”. The two most common forms are:

      obsessive-compulsive disorder – obsessive, distressing, intrusive thoughts and related compulsions which attempt to neutralize the obsessions
      drug addiction – a condition where a person takes a drug compulsively, despite potential harm to themselves, or their desire to stop

      your statement and a lot of the posts here seems to presume:

      1.) outside of monogamy that there HAS to exist some negative extreme that often includes deceit (treasonous, traiterous, ravenous, unintelligent and brute like behavior)

      2.) the examples provided in the definition above seem to suggest that there are other common examples of compulsive behavior which you and ForReal perhaps did not think of.

      say word.

      • http://goodeness.blogspot.com GOODENess

        for the record khan doesn’t think he could stomach being in an open relationship where my woman partner can sleep with another man. i’m just not there yet but…

        but you could be in an open relationship wher eyou can tip out at will huh?… lol…

        • genius khan

          Goody queries the khan: “but you could be in an open relationship wher eyou can tip out at will huh?… lol…

          A: perhaps……LOL!

        • genius khan

          Goody queries the khan: “but you could be in an open relationship wher eyou can tip out at will huh?… lol…

          A: perhaps……LOL!

      • http://goodeness.blogspot.com GOODENess

        for the record khan doesn’t think he could stomach being in an open relationship where my woman partner can sleep with another man. i’m just not there yet but…

        but you could be in an open relationship wher eyou can tip out at will huh?… lol…

    • genius khan

      Raq, for the record khan doesn’t think he could stomach being in an open relationship where my woman partner can sleep with another man. i’m just not there yet but…

      Compulsive behavior is behavior which a person does “compulsively”, i.e., not because he enjoys it but because he feels he “has to”. The two most common forms are:

      obsessive-compulsive disorder – obsessive, distressing, intrusive thoughts and related compulsions which attempt to neutralize the obsessions
      drug addiction – a condition where a person takes a drug compulsively, despite potential harm to themselves, or their desire to stop

      your statement and a lot of the posts here seems to presume:

      1.) outside of monogamy that there HAS to exist some negative extreme that often includes deceit (treasonous, traiterous, ravenous, unintelligent and brute like behavior)

      2.) the examples provided in the definition above seem to suggest that there are other common examples of compulsive behavior which you and ForReal perhaps did not think of.

      say word.

  • Raqi

    Champ I am soooo glad you posted this.

    And even more ecstatic that you stated “and it’s idiotic to compare our sexual selves to other species in the animal kingdom who lack the ability to reason on a high level.”

    I get so freaking tired of people trying to justify traitorous activities by comparing themselves to untamed and uncivilized beast. I mean really, is that how you want to be tagged? With the intelligence and scruples of a ravenous brute?

    Why does the need to connect with every thing one is attracted to only apply to sexual lust? Those very same people manage to find a way to refrain from…let’s say…compulsive buying.

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