from his brazen infidelity to his choosing of someone extremely younger, poorer, less educated, and whiter, steve mcnair’s death at the hands of his mistress sahel kazemi and her subsequent suicide is a virtual petri dish of black relationship sore spots.
yet, after a weeks worth of conversation with different women, the single most recurring question about this situation has been less “why did he cheat?“ and more “why the hell would he downgrade??“
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despite never meeting him and possessing a personal “no exceptions/excuses” rule in regards to cheating and downgrading, i am aware of the thought process that could lead to him (temporarily) ditching a doting and attractive wife who personally nursed his injuries while he was still playing for a 20 year high school drop-out, and today i’ll attempt to break it down in two parts.
1. the freak factor
occasionally, you’ll see me use some variant of “to further vsb’s crime fighting commitments“ as a segue introducing whatever topic i have in mind that day. i know it probably seems like a useless vsb cliche, but that phrase does have a practical purpose. “well-informed and practical” people equals “good relationships”, “good relationships” equal “happy people”, and “happy people” equals “less crime download crazy eights .”
i’m bringing this up because i’m aware that there are some men who need to have frequent sex to basically keep them out of prison. sure, we all want to have consistent coitus, but there are men out there who are literal threats to murder people and small farm animals without any regular gotdamn. according to chris rock, our first black president was a no-coitus killer (“nck” for short), and i’m assuming steve mcnair was one as well
after reading that they were married for over a decade and had two children together (four altogether) i’m going to assume that they probably didn’t have frequent sex anymore. for a typical nck, the only way to make up for infrequent sex is if the semi-regular sex you do have is the freakiest, most degenerate, crackheaded crystal meth jungle possum mating possible.
i’m going to also assume that mcnair either,
1. wasn’t able to convince his wife to be this base,
2. was just unwilling to do that sh*t to her, understandably unable to synthesize “lovely wife and mother” and “four dollar f*ck slut” in his head.
this is where she…
some pictures say one thousand words. hers? three (“i’ll do anything”) download the holy mountain dvd , and a seasoned nck can sniff out a freak needle in a chaste haystack a mile away. it was only a matter of time.
2. the glory (days)
despite being a millionaire superstar quarterback, in his home steve mcnair was probably just like any other middle-aged married man, drinking oj straight from the carton, losing socks, and silently shaking his head when being reminded by his wife to separate the recyclables.
with sahel kazemi though, he was still able to be “steve mcnair, millionaire superstar” instead of “steve mcnair, can you run to walmart and pick up some bleach? oh, btw, i gotta go to the kids soccer practice later, so you’ll hafta cook or pick up some take-out“, and, for a person glaring at his prime in the rearview mirror, there’s a definite (if fleeting) allure to being around someone who thinks the sun rises and sets in your pants
i don’t want this to come across as supportive or even sympathetic to his actions. while noone deserves to die for desiring an undry d*ck, he’d still be filming anti-suicide psa’s if he left a 10 dollar tip at dave and busters several months ago instead of an erect one.
still, understanding helps. you can’t fight crime without it