Comments on: link of the week: cheapskate or great date http://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date Mon, 13 Feb 2012 06:17:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: GOODENesshttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13985 GOODENess Fri, 11 Jul 2008 19:42:16 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13985 as long as you can make sure I've got somewhere comfy to lay my head...I think the money after I get there is a non-issue...I mean shit...you cook and shit anyway... ;) as long as you can make sure I’ve got somewhere comfy to lay my head…I think the money after I get there is a non-issue…I mean shit…you cook and shit anyway… ;)

]]> By: BigBuckhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13938 BigBuck Fri, 11 Jul 2008 18:47:20 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13938 I didn't say i wouldn't drop an cash to make things possible that I really want! I just wouldn't spend any money on you after you get here! LOL! I didn’t say i wouldn’t drop an cash to make things possible that I really want! I just wouldn’t spend any money on you after you get here! LOL!

]]> By: GOODENesshttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13861 GOODENess Fri, 11 Jul 2008 15:59:53 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13861 right but that was the "holy" one...LOL... right but that was the “holy” one…LOL…

]]> By: Nuthttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13627 Nut Fri, 11 Jul 2008 06:49:09 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13627 Wassup Good!!! I love that whole cd, stop playin'. Wassup Good!!! I love that whole cd, stop playin’.

]]> By: Nuthttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13626 Nut Fri, 11 Jul 2008 06:33:24 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13626 Buck you cook!!! That is the sexiest thing a man can do for a woman. I would much rather a date cook for me than go to a resturant.Love the Boondocks too.'that's n*gga technology' funny as hell! Buck you cook!!! That is the sexiest thing a man can do for a woman. I would much rather a date cook for me than go to a resturant.

Love the Boondocks too.

‘that’s n*gga technology’ funny as hell!

]]> By: Nuthttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13625 Nut Fri, 11 Jul 2008 06:16:49 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13625 I love Malibu Utc!!!!! Screen on the green was super wack this year. Who wants to see Big Mama's House in the park? I can watch that shit on Peachtree TV.Maybe it's just me, I was so disappointed. 'The Wiz' last year was off the chain. I love Malibu Utc!!!!! Screen on the green was super wack this year. Who wants to see Big Mama’s House in the park? I can watch that shit on Peachtree TV.

Maybe it’s just me, I was so disappointed. ‘The Wiz’ last year was off the chain.

]]> By: Nuthttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13624 Nut Fri, 11 Jul 2008 06:06:12 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13624 Naw, that's some bullsh*t!!!She decided I was worth getting to know and so she shouldered the responsibility. Where most women would run, she rode out for me and that showed me that I wasnt dealing with a run-of-the-mill woman.You right, you right there were no heros in this scenario. Rode it out for you indeed! Naw, that’s some bullsh*t!!!

She decided I was worth getting to know and so she shouldered the responsibility. Where most women would run, she rode out for me and that showed me that I wasnt dealing with a run-of-the-mill woman.

You right, you right there were no heros in this scenario. Rode it out for you indeed!

]]> By: Genius Khanhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13617 Genius Khan Fri, 11 Jul 2008 04:46:11 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13617 Dom, its khan here. my pops doesn't have to teach me how to treat a lady. ...and I don't always open car doors for a woman and no i don't treat every woman I took on a 1st date the exact same way I would a wife. ...that doesn't mean I treated them shabbily either or with less than gentlemanly courtesy. but just because I wore a White shirt didn't make me personal valet or a hand and foot servant. and just because my car is yellow don't mean its a cab. and just because I'm hospitable don't mean I am a welcome mat. what irks me is an heir and attitude of haughty entitlement burning the hair in my nostrils. Dom, its khan here. my pops doesn’t have to teach me how to treat a lady. …and I don’t always open car doors for a woman and no i don’t treat every woman I took on a 1st date the exact same way I would a wife. …that doesn’t mean I treated them shabbily either or with less than gentlemanly courtesy. but just because I wore a White shirt didn’t make me personal valet or a hand and foot servant. and just because my car is yellow don’t mean its a cab. and just because I’m hospitable don’t mean I am a welcome mat. what irks me is an heir and attitude of haughty entitlement burning the hair in my nostrils.

]]> By: Domhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13616 Dom Fri, 11 Jul 2008 02:44:08 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13616 genius kahn-
“i was lucky enough to grow up with my father in the household. …so i had the example of him providing for his wife and children. to this day if a girl meets him he encourages me to open the car door for her etc. he may have done it a lot of the times FOR MY MOTHER but i do so nowhere near as much for a woman im dating and less so for a first date. if you suggest i treat a woman i just met like i would my wife i probably wont be doing that. i’m not mad at me and i’ll sleep well tonight. start early, hate me now.”

You usually have some insightful things to say, but this is some serious immaturity showing through right here. I would continute dating a guy who plans inexpensive dates but I would drop one real quick if I thought he was treating me cheaply.

If you are a Grown Man, your father shouldn’t have to remind you to open your girls’ car door, or walk on the right side of the street, or generally act like a gentleman. That should be ingrained in you from childhood. I dont have to plan on marrying a man just for me to treat him with some class. Its called self-respect.

]]> By: Sister Toldjahttp://verysmartbrothas.com/link-of-the-week-cheapskate-or-great-date/#comment-13615 Sister Toldja Fri, 11 Jul 2008 02:36:15 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=113#comment-13615 "the women i found attractive seemed to place a very high value on material posseseions"RING THE ALARM!!!!! I know I am five years late but I think this is one of the big problems we overlook. Men who continuously persue the sort of woman who is materialistic and then get mad about them being materialistic! These women usually have some sort of accoutremants that clue you in on where they are coming from and y'all ignore it! THATS WHAT YOU GET! I can't go holler at a dude at a Yankees game wearing a Yankees hat and jersey, and then get mad to find out he likes baseball!!! “the women i found attractive seemed to place a very high value on material posseseions”

RING THE ALARM!!!!! I know I am five years late but I think this is one of the big problems we overlook. Men who continuously persue the sort of woman who is materialistic and then get mad about them being materialistic! These women usually have some sort of accoutremants that clue you in on where they are coming from and y’all ignore it! THATS WHAT YOU GET! I can’t go holler at a dude at a Yankees game wearing a Yankees hat and jersey, and then get mad to find out he likes baseball!!!

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