http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=get-off-the-wagon Tue, 22 May 2012 01:37:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-188135 morning sex and more: the 10 coolest things about being in a relationship — Very Smart Brothas Tue, 03 Aug 2010 04:02:41 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-188135 [...] it has something to do with bandwagon attraction. maybe it has to do with the fact that men in relationships (usually) aren’t pressed to [...] [...] it has something to do with bandwagon attraction. maybe it has to do with the fact that men in relationships (usually) aren’t pressed to [...]

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-19593 Black Man Plan Part 2: He Shall NOT get a Pedicure « The Comeback Girl Fri, 08 Aug 2008 06:06:00 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-19593 [...] I know this post may piss ALOT of ladies off. And for that I apologize right now. This post was inspired by two posters: Miss Patterson and Shay-d-lady (astutely baffled at the pedicure phenomenon with men) over at VSB. [...]

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-19581 Very Smart Brothas | guilty as charged Fri, 08 Aug 2008 04:27:05 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-19581 [...] the “wrong” race or body build or age, or sometimes you’ve been on the bandwagon so long that you’re scared to jump off and admit that you find them attractive. regardless of [...] [...] the “wrong” race or body build or age, or sometimes you’ve been on the bandwagon so long that you’re scared to jump off and admit that you find them attractive. regardless of [...]

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-19577 blaksicilian Thu, 07 Aug 2008 21:42:08 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-19577 Just a comment on the mos def/alana wyatt link. Let's talk about how these bum-ass groupies jump on bandwagons. Wow, this BIRD has definitely flown the coop. How are you gonna write a self-help book for women and give them relationship advice when your full-time job is getting slayed and played by the NBA and Hip-Hop's finest? All of us know plenty of bad chicks who look just as good and deal with celebs, but why don't they all feel they have to spill the beans and write a tell-all? Because bad chicks move in silence, real talk. She is making women who date celebs look deceiving and malicious! U are not a bad chick if you were only ready to realize your goals (ie: getting a BMW X?!? Step your game up mama! "We don't drive X5's we give 'em to baby mamas"-Jay-Z) once you married Mos Def! U didn't have goals before that? Now she wants Lil' Wayne...who's next, Rick Ross? (See a pattern here: Hip-Hop Baby father's, phony ass-marriages, rumors of physical abuse, writing a tell-all book--I smell a Superhead clone.) At least Carmen was engaged to Nas at one point and they were together 9 years. Alana is talking all that I don't let my feelings get hurt" but you're writing a book, playing yourself! It's not what you do it's how you do it! So condescending, her sex game probably is wack. And the biggest disgrace is for her to say, "I don't even listen to Hip-Hop." HA! And y'all dumb-ass ballers still fall for these hoes! Hold ya head Mos! The lesson in this all: The wife always prevails over the jump-offs, no matter what. (See the wives of Ja Rule, Shaq, Kobe, Nas, etc.) Not hating, I'm just saying... Just a comment on the mos def/alana wyatt link. Let’s talk about how these bum-ass groupies jump on bandwagons. Wow, this BIRD has definitely flown the coop. How are you gonna write a self-help book for women and give them relationship advice when your full-time job is getting slayed and played by the NBA and Hip-Hop’s finest? All of us know plenty of bad chicks who look just as good and deal with celebs, but why don’t they all feel they have to spill the beans and write a tell-all? Because bad chicks move in silence, real talk. She is making women who date celebs look deceiving and malicious! U are not a bad chick if you were only ready to realize your goals (ie: getting a BMW X?!? Step your game up mama! “We don’t drive X5′s we give ‘em to baby mamas”-Jay-Z) once you married Mos Def! U didn’t have goals before that? Now she wants Lil’ Wayne…who’s next, Rick Ross? (See a pattern here: Hip-Hop Baby father’s, phony ass-marriages, rumors of physical abuse, writing a tell-all book–I smell a Superhead clone.) At least Carmen was engaged to Nas at one point and they were together 9 years. Alana is talking all that I don’t let my feelings get hurt” but you’re writing a book, playing yourself! It’s not what you do it’s how you do it! So condescending, her sex game probably is wack. And the biggest disgrace is for her to say, “I don’t even listen to Hip-Hop.” HA! And y’all dumb-ass ballers still fall for these hoes! Hold ya head Mos! The lesson in this all: The wife always prevails over the jump-offs, no matter what. (See the wives of Ja Rule, Shaq, Kobe, Nas, etc.) Not hating, I’m just saying…

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-19035 SouthernCharm Wed, 06 Aug 2008 15:11:33 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-19035 ... not to mention she lost the 2nd trimester look! … not to mention she lost the 2nd trimester look!

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-18864 Raspberry Wed, 06 Aug 2008 08:16:35 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-18864 Hahaha , that is so true. After seeing that Eating the Bones movie, Hill Harper was actually less attractive to me. I'm realizing I don't like men who come off as too boyish.. I like grown behind 5'0clock shadow type men who are over adolescent type angst. I'm also not sure how I feel about men picking out pretty scarves - I can't wait until that trend dies. Hahaha , that is so true. After seeing that Eating the Bones movie, Hill Harper was actually less attractive to me. I’m realizing I don’t like men who come off as too boyish.. I like grown behind 5’0clock shadow type men who are over adolescent type angst. I’m also not sure how I feel about men picking out pretty scarves – I can’t wait until that trend dies.

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-18862 aja Wed, 06 Aug 2008 08:03:56 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-18862 yes!! lawds he is the man! yes!! lawds he is the man!

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-18836 Luvvie Wed, 06 Aug 2008 02:27:48 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-18836 Champ, you are AWESOMER than perfectly soft "Now n Laters" nd Pink Starburst. Champ, you are AWESOMER than perfectly soft “Now n Laters” nd Pink Starburst.

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-18835 Leila Wed, 06 Aug 2008 02:26:21 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-18835 I agree! I agree!

]]> http://verysmartbrothas.com/get-off-the-wagon/#comment-18834 Luvvie Wed, 06 Aug 2008 02:23:16 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=215#comment-18834 'Preciate that Z! ‘Preciate that Z!

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