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By: Why Monogamy? | Very Smart Brothas

Why Monogamy? | Very Smart Brothas — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 13:54:26 +0000

[...] from “Minority Report,” and I’m not trying to f*ck Katie Holmes. But, although�I’ve written about my feelings towards cheating and monogamy numerous times (Short version: I’ve never cheated and I have a tendency to get holier-than-thou when [...]

By: Why Cheaters “Win” At Relationships | Very Smart Brothas

Why Cheaters “Win” At Relationships | Very Smart Brothas — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 09:01:37 +0000

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By: Guest Post: Why Cheaters �Win� At Relationships « Mzmish122's Blog

Guest Post: Why Cheaters �Win� At Relationships « Mzmish122's Blog — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 16:56:32 +0000

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By: k_houston

k_houston — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 03:47:24 +0000

My question to you in this regard is: Are you a “serial monogamist.” I ask this because in my opinion, serial monogamy still demonstrates a lack of commitment. If you only have raw sex with your “girlfriends”, but in a lifetime you end up having 100 plus of them; and you believe that the behavior is justified because you were monogamous during their tenure, in my book, you’ve still spread yourself around as much as a “cheater”. Although I will say that I have made my share of choices that I would do over again if given the chance, I can say that my mistakes as well as great books like, “Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships” (by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend), have helped me to believe that I am capable of interacting with men, and genuinely get to know them, allow them to get to know me, be intimate, and vulnerable, yet grow as a person, get to know what I do and don’t want in a lifelong partner, and practice skills that will prepare me for marriage without defiling myself or the men involved.

By: SHIESTY

SHIESTY — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 23:36:44 +0000

no bullshit though…my nickname shoulda been Footer in college… stayed comfortin these females wit time and soul pole

But on the cheating thang…You cheat based on what you want… if you wanna fukk the world, u’ll try to do just that… if u only want 1 joint..then that’s what you’ll do.

and I personally dont consider it cheating.. I’m simply shopping for her replacement

By: Brotha Tech

Brotha Tech — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:08:57 +0000

I’m faithful simply because the mere thought of my wife’s legs pint up by her ears while some other dood POUNDS her CAKE (i’m hungry…and infuriated) completely drives me insane.

I can only speculate how she would feel if I was cheating (hurt is an understatement), So to be fair, I keep it in my pants cause I would be on some “All three of us is going to heaven today” if I caught my wife stepping out. So I assume she feels the same about me.

“Do unto others…and sh*t” (I have been waiting to use that)

By: Girl Politik

Girl Politik — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 23:56:48 +0000

I am lol at the Pittsburgh comment! I used to live in da burgh AND went to Pitt and OMG, if is creepy how everyone knows each other! But I have never cheated but I have had a starting lineup that all knew about each other. I think the difference was that I didn’t like the lineup enough to committ to any of them. While in my serious relationship I was really in-love.

By: cam1ll3

cam1ll3 — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 16:37:08 +0000

@Sula and ComicBookGuy,

i love him underneath the thick gloopy layer of resentment i have for him. way deep down.

By: cam1ll3

cam1ll3 — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 16:35:06 +0000

@klysha,

pretty much. the thought of ending it hurts as well.

By: Tahir J

Tahir J — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 03:22:45 +0000

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