Comments on: the end of the beginning

By: Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom

Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 21:13:43 +0000

@Dante_Alexander,

I keep it honest at all times as well…it’s why they call me a cold hearted ice queen.

By: Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom

Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 21:09:04 +0000

@Nicki Sunshine,

YES, they will. Heck, if I want him enough I’d keep an eye out for the opportunity while happily advancing my friendship.

It’s a tad shady…but it’s reality

By: Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom

Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 21:05:12 +0000

@shay_d_lady,

That is EXTREMELY gangster…Wow…

By: Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom

Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 21:03:42 +0000

@Sula,

I had to explain that to one dude. Just because the relationship ends does not mean the FRIENDSHIP you’ve been cultivating should end.

By: Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom

Siobhan means Woman of Wisdom — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:53:47 +0000

My last ex called me an emotionless robot…an entire year after our breakup…and at the same time said he misses me and wishes me well.

The boyfriend before him said that I was a cruel because I didn’t care and that my experiment to try to be nicer was a good thing.

My ex-husband ended up co-dependent. We were best friends, and not in love, so that was a peaceful and happy divorce. The lack of emotions was a good thing there.

I used to be utterly indifferent, whether single or in a relationship, so I enjoyed the good times and then I move on.

I’m more open and have emotions now…but I don’t see much of a difference. So the end does not affect the beginning for me.

Heck I still love the Spiderman Trilogy though the last one was lame. If Transformers 3 is lame I’ll be alright because I frickin love T2. Heck I still support the Terminator Series (and the new Bale movie) even though T3 was horrid.

By: Treezy F. Baby

Treezy F. Baby — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:36:30 +0000

@Babs, yeah I like to wonder if after all the tears and “baby I miss you” texts, he’s actually LEARNED anything about himself and all the issues and situations that contributed to the downfall of the r-ship.

By: overit?

overit? — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:26:21 +0000

I haven’t had any really terrible break ups, all it took was one time, one bad experience and then I took no mess.

What does annoy me to NO end, is when you calmly express why x, y and z are unnaceptable and causing an unhealthy dynamic, and ninja wanna make you feel like you lost your mind.

The key to any healthy relationship, be it with your boss or significant other, is to know thyself and hold firmly to “don’t start none, won’t be none”

By: shri fry frye, Esq

shri fry frye, Esq — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:12:20 +0000

@Treezy F. Baby, LOL, this post was entertaining, thanks!

I do feel a good, thorough cussing out does the body, mind and soul good every now and again. Some people need it, then when you throw in some irrlevant ish, you really get into healing.

By: Babs

Babs — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:52:44 +0000

“have you allowed a break-up to alter your perception of the entire relationship? ”

Yes. In that, I was so crushed over the breakup I allowed myself to downplay WHY we were breaking up. Thankfully, I know myself, so as things started to crumble, I wrote myself a little note telling myself to remember why I was ending things. I had to refer back to that several times.

By: Yaa

Yaa — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:49:43 +0000

@The Champ,

“this, btw, was exactly what luvvie said to me about her vagina”

I was not ready for this!!!!!! My laugh went down the wrong pipe….I AM OVER HERE CHOKING!!!