Comments on: bagging the bangingest: how to attract a black woman

By: ugh

ugh — Wed, 03 Nov 2010 04:03:51 +0000

this whole discussion is ignorant and stupid from all angles. smh

By: P.S. From 2520

P.S. From 2520 — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 23:23:57 +0000

Interesting how we both started out just looking for some sexy–and it took a different turn–but I really do LIKE this lady. Notjussnothernotch.
I did the annoying lexicon throwback thing trying to show I could relate while not trying to be a wigger–your posts made me both laugh and understand a different perspective–I’m just intrigued that me and the lady bumped sexytext tease time, but after the actual meet up failed to materialize, it was her who suggested we stay in touch because I’m such a sweetie–presumably for getting my fiend on for 2 days (I told ya she makes me “weak”)–and not bustin’ up some furniture or somethin’ when it all fell thru. Sissy? Her bf is too distracted for her right now–wtf? Better get his game on. lol I dunno–something crazy happening here cuz I’m really likin’ this girl esp. after talkin’ with her over time–and I’m fiending for her too. Need some cool splashdown—>Relax*Relate*Release–>Laffin, haven’t been this ackward since junior high. Bring me some water?

Love,
2520

By: luvsmesumoher

luvsmesumoher — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 21:44:58 +0000

So i got lucky & found this beautiful creole/black mixed girl on a free ad site, and we started emailing back and forth, things seemed hot in print, we arranged to meet, the day came and she backed out because she didn’t want to cheat on her bf–cool w/that because i felt her speaking from her heart–disappointed cuz she’d sent pics that showed her whole package and yeah, i want some. She said she wanted to stay in touch so we are and gettin’ to know each other–we cool w/each other–really like to talk–sometimes 5 hours non-sex, a little flirting thrown in by both of us–of course i’m still talkin’ smack to her but not crossin’ the line too far–but she knows i think she’s fine–yeah i’m white–being real, sure it’s still in the back of my mind that one day maybe she’ll give me the goods but i’m stayin’ cool as i can–but the girl makes me weak, really she is all of that an’ she knows it–am i just her ego massage, or is she hangin’ around because she does like me, or i’m a potential backup–i’m all messed up now–lol–but whenever we click i’m still feelin’ her. Haven’t acted the fool too much, just enough that she knows she’s fine. (Or have i?) Thoughts?

By: libra5242

libra5242 — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 00:35:51 +0000

Here’s a few I’d like to add: 1. Don’t ever ever ever tell a woman what you’re afraid of — particularly if it’s stuff we’re not afraid of — i.e.- squirrels, the dark, birds on the beach, etc.;
2. When you have your eye on one woman in the group, make that one woman feel special. Don’t eyeball her friends, then take the first one that returns the eyeball;
3. ALWAYS be confident. Confidence is to black women what a big ass is to a black man. If you’re insecure in your approach or what you’re going to say, then you’ve already lost. The ugliest dude with the most confidence can get much further than the finest insecure dude. I never want to be stronger than the man I’m with.

By: Jdantv

Jdantv — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 03:03:13 +0000

As a caramel colored lady, I have to admit that #4 is sooooo true for me. Why is it? I don’t get it. I love to think I’m dark so when someone compliments me on it, esp. if I have a tan, I’m geeked! Damn shame!

By: OrangeStar616

OrangeStar616 — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 13:46:13 +0000

Be yourself…. sincerely, honestly, and most genuine.

By: chaoticdiva

chaoticdiva — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 03:04:12 +0000

@The Champ,

Let me answer that: Most of what I generally go on. Does that make me a worse person than I already am?

By: chaoticdiva

chaoticdiva — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 03:02:51 +0000

@The Champ,

I’ll never tell. *evil grin*

By: VeronicaCorningstoneD

VeronicaCorningstoneD — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 00:44:17 +0000

also, if you’re 252o let’s not bring up your whiteness as soon as we meet. example: i’m at the club and feel dude tryna dance with me. I turn around and see that’s it’s your standard-issue 2520 dude. he then replies, “oh, you must not want to dance with me because i’m white.” huh? 0_O what? I turned around to make sure you were not ugly/crazy/tacky/etc. but now that you’ve made it extremely awkward, i’ll just turn my attention to the bar. kthxbye

By: deon

deon — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 00:17:13 +0000

i agree with the #1…let it be known u like black girls. when i see an attractive black guy i don’t even try to attract him any longer because there is a pretty good chance he’s one of those guys that don’t like bw. or he is super picky (even tho he most likely looks average and isn’t all that)

i’m dark and i really don’t care if a guy compliments my hair. then again i’m not high maintenance.