Comments on: Back Like That.

By: Candace Butler

Candace Butler — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 17:26:21 +0000

Not just no, but heck no. If you aren’t man enough to say you want to see other people, then you’re not worth the time or trouble to stay with. At least be honest about it.

By: Intellectual Hedonist

Intellectual Hedonist — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 20:52:58 +0000

@Intellectual Hedonist, test

By: Intellectual Hedonist

Intellectual Hedonist — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 20:51:11 +0000

@The Champ, yo

By: The Champ

The Champ — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 20:48:44 +0000

By: docdj23

docdj23 — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 16:22:34 +0000

@blackberry molasses, Yes, tis true that I be a young cat…but if truth be told (stepping on to really high soap box) I never needed no help in that department. I am not against FREE advice, or free anything for that matter, but you didnt offer any. As far as Redbeanz and Princess Duvet go I havent been on the site long (just busted my blog cherry yesterday) but they sound like they know what they talkin about for the most part so I’ll hold my piece on that one. Last, b/c I am me it matters not the female I run into b/c if she is straight or slightly bie your manz can MCNABB her, sweep her off her feet and have her letting me have 500 dollars for some fresh J’s. j/j

By: pgh muse

pgh muse — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 15:44:37 +0000

@Ms. Sula,

That is very interesting.

By: Sweet Jones

Sweet Jones — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 06:05:21 +0000

@ the guys.

Goodness.

As a man, if a female cheats on you, it says TONS about your “game” and the obvious poor quality of your decisions.

POINT.BLANK.PERIOD.

Step your game up lame and pull a better crop of women.

They exist.

By: J.R. Bernard

J.R. Bernard — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 05:08:57 +0000

@docdj23, lol. with regards to females cheating with their souls, I think that some women like to sit on a high horse and pretend the ish they do does not jeopardize/harm a relationship in the same way that the ish men might do (jumpin a side jawn every now and then).

For example (this is hypothetical), if a women cooks for me, I may wanna be the only man she cooks for. If she cooks for another dude, I might go ape sh*t over it cuz it’s something I’m partial to (even if she cooked because she enjoys it and does it in her spare time). She probably doesn’t see it as such a big deal, but it still matters to me. Men and sex are the same way. Big deal to women, not so much to men.

By: Anon

Anon — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 05:03:36 +0000

Question:Has anyone considered that a guy who was cheated on but decided to stick around is much less likely to talk about it?To ANYONE?

In general,women are much more open about having been “cheatees”.

By: J.R. Bernard

J.R. Bernard — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 04:55:44 +0000

@pgh muse, I wasn’t referring to myself, though I know some guys that are like that for whatever reason (long distance relationships, their S.O. being a virgin, etc). I’d care alot less (and be more forgiving) towards a girl if she talked with another guy and had him doing/buying gifts than if she were gettin’ jiggy with holmes. On the flip side, most women I know would be more upset if I were to go treat some side jawn as if she were wifey than if I treated them like skeezos.

For the record, I think both are equally wrong. But certain things matter more to some people than it does others. It boils down to the lesser of the two evils involving more emotional attachment than the other (in the eyes of each respective person).

So you can think men have a skanky attitude towards sex, but always remember that it takes two… (or three or four)

And I’ll also say that just because men are more prone to getting caught (probably because of carelessness and recklessness) does not mean that women don’t do the same thing. The fact that they are clever in covering up their pooh does not change the fact that they still do number #2′s…