Comments on: ask the champ: the wife list http://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test Sun, 12 Feb 2012 20:01:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ashley Burthttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-54889 Ashley Burt Fri, 21 Nov 2008 09:59:03 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-54889 Good list - not sure I agree with all of the items but most of them for sure ;-)I owe myself a bunch of <a href="http://www.twenga.com/dir-Fashion,Women-s-skirts-and-dresses,Women-s-dress-14226" rel="nofollow">BCBG dresses</a> so I felt really close to the description on that specific part ;-) Good list – not sure I agree with all of the items but most of them for sure ;-)

I owe myself a bunch of BCBG dresses so I felt really close to the description on that specific part ;-)

]]> By: shatanihttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-51764 shatani Thu, 13 Nov 2008 23:49:02 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-51764 “shat: (hehe it’s weird but i love to say/type it!) my experiments are done in rats (don’t freak out–they are gentle sweet creatures, believeitornot) so i can control for a lot. unfortunately, my 2 sets of data don’t coincide so i have different data for the same proj, which is why it’s driving me nuts to put this whole thing together!! and yeah, i hate stats too. mostly becuz i hate matlab lol. but i just did t-tests on this data tho, so very simple. but i’m messing with these graphs, ish not sizing right on the poster, i’m trying to figure out how to say “my years worth of work resulted in basically nothing so you’re wasting your time reading this poster” in proper scientific terms, ya know just foolishness.”

girl, im okay with lab mice…theyre cute! now actual mice, runnin up and thru my house and shittin everwhere….they need to die!

aww, gemster…i feel for ya. i hope all goes well in DC this weekend!

]]> By: malaikahttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-51098 malaika Thu, 13 Nov 2008 10:02:24 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-51098 We neighbours sweets, representing Kenya love ;-) We neighbours sweets, representing Kenya love ;-)

]]> By: Killa Khttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-51049 Killa K Thu, 13 Nov 2008 00:52:43 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-51049 I do not disagree with you but I think you missed the point of my post. I was trying to make an argument as to why some, not all, men pass over women who are 'wifey material'. There is plenty of blame to go around and women have their fair share. I do not disagree with you but I think you missed the point of my post. I was trying to make an argument as to why some, not all, men pass over women who are ‘wifey material’. There is plenty of blame to go around and women have their fair share.

]]> By: pgh musehttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-50693 pgh muse Wed, 12 Nov 2008 10:11:45 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-50693 OW - I feel you. And do applaud both you and your wife's commitment to making your family work. I don't know... my feminist feathers get ruffled from time to time and the She-Ra comes out but I think what ya'll have going on sounds wonderful... she does get back rubs too right? I have been back to work full time for a while and do want to be home more so I'm working on being home based... I don't know. I have spoken to male coworkers who have stay at home wives and me personally, I don't think i could depend on somebody else as a sole source of income... but i've always had like 5 jobs at one time since i was like 12... so maybe thats it... OW – I feel you. And do applaud both you and your wife’s commitment to making your family work. I don’t know… my feminist feathers get ruffled from time to time and the She-Ra comes out but I think what ya’ll have going on sounds wonderful… she does get back rubs too right? I have been back to work full time for a while and do want to be home more so I’m working on being home based… I don’t know. I have spoken to male coworkers who have stay at home wives and me personally, I don’t think i could depend on somebody else as a sole source of income… but i’ve always had like 5 jobs at one time since i was like 12… so maybe thats it…

]]> By: Gem of the Oceanhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-50621 Gem of the Ocean Wed, 12 Nov 2008 05:48:40 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-50621 lmao @ the overit/gem code on FB.... <i>(wait.... it's coming.....)</i> i. love. it!! lmao @ the overit/gem code on FB…. (wait…. it’s coming…..) i. love. it!!

]]> By: overithttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-50616 overit Wed, 12 Nov 2008 05:43:38 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-50616 I am!Yay for FB twin status. Twinning all over the worlddddd. Clearly I am not on there as "overit" lmao. I'm going to write on the wall for the DC Happy Hour. I guess that's the only way to do it right? I shall shout you out so in Seuss rhyme so you know its me. I am!Yay for FB twin status. Twinning all over the worlddddd. Clearly I am not on there as “overit” lmao. I’m going to write on the wall for the DC Happy Hour. I guess that’s the only way to do it right? I shall shout you out so in Seuss rhyme so you know its me.

]]> By: Gem of the Oceanhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-50608 Gem of the Ocean Wed, 12 Nov 2008 05:34:57 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-50608 e-twin overit, you on FB?? i need to find you so you can be my e-FB-twin too in addition to my e-VSB-twin lol e-twin overit, you on FB?? i need to find you so you can be my e-FB-twin too in addition to my e-VSB-twin lol

]]> By: Gem of the Oceanhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-50601 Gem of the Ocean Wed, 12 Nov 2008 05:25:46 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-50601 i'm soooooo mad i'm just not reading all this!!! i'm with my e-twin and Luvvie on the highlights.but really, my fav is the CRIP WALKING LADY!!! wtf?!?! omg lmao that is... ummmm wow.<i>I wanted to fight her one-on-one cause the sh*t hurt bad as hell but she was a big mama and from the looks of her crip walking ability, she was far more agile than me. So I sat my @ss down and nursed my wounds instead. the end.</i>i'm glad you left it alone, D*Pain, my spunky e-friend. you mighta not made it to tell this story and put us all on the "Sick & Shut In" list from laughing ourselves to a hospital bed. i’m soooooo mad i’m just not reading all this!!! i’m with my e-twin and Luvvie on the highlights.

but really, my fav is the CRIP WALKING LADY!!! wtf?!?! omg lmao that is… ummmm wow.

I wanted to fight her one-on-one cause the sh*t hurt bad as hell but she was a big mama and from the looks of her crip walking ability, she was far more agile than me. So I sat my @ss down and nursed my wounds instead. the end.

i’m glad you left it alone, D*Pain, my spunky e-friend. you mighta not made it to tell this story and put us all on the “Sick & Shut In” list from laughing ourselves to a hospital bed.

]]> By: opinionatedwriterhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/ask-the-champ-the-wifey-test/#comment-50599 opinionatedwriter Wed, 12 Nov 2008 05:23:57 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=648#comment-50599 Killa K- You make a lot of valid points. A lot of men ARE too boneheaded and immature to recognize a quality woman. (I knew a slew of these dudes-most of them were in my camp and most of them now have it together) but I think your post puts the blame squarely on bruhs shoulders unfairly and inaccurately. Women can be equally if not more immature and unrealistic than men. They talk about "I just want a good man!" But when a solid bruh steps up with no games or pretense but doesn't fit exactly how you might've envisioned him to be, (doesn't look like Boris Kodjoe/Idris Elba, works as a short order cook/bus driver, etc. take your pick of MY generalizations. lol) he's summarily dismissed or placed squarely and firmly in the "Friend Zone." On another note, I knew a trifling woman back in '98 who was told me that she was going to marry some dude who was all into her and had long dollars and the whole nine. The problem was the fact that she didn't love him at all. She was IN LOVE with the IDEA of being married and the fancy ring, wedding, etc. In fact, this trifling chick told me that she was going to step out on old boy right off the top. She got married to the dude with cash in a lavish, extravagant ceremony (to the tune of somewhere around $30, 000) where she of course, was the star, in June. She cheated on him with the dude she told me about in July and she was divorced in August! Now here she is, foul as Hell wondering why life was treating her so bad! (I told her 'Cause you foul! You do dirt, you get dirt!') The truth is men and women are EQUALLY to blame for all these issues and we need to spend more time getting out of our own way, less time playing the 'Blame Game' and getting together to make this relationship thing work. Killa K- You make a lot of valid points. A lot of men ARE too boneheaded and immature to recognize a quality woman. (I knew a slew of these dudes-most of them were in my camp and most of them now have it together) but I think your post puts the blame squarely on bruhs shoulders unfairly and inaccurately. Women can be equally if not more immature and unrealistic than men. They talk about “I just want a good man!” But when a solid bruh steps up with no games or pretense but doesn’t fit exactly how you might’ve envisioned him to be, (doesn’t look like Boris Kodjoe/Idris Elba, works as a short order cook/bus driver, etc. take your pick of MY generalizations. lol) he’s summarily dismissed or placed squarely and firmly in the “Friend Zone.” On another note, I knew a trifling woman back in ’98 who was told me that she was going to marry some dude who was all into her and had long dollars and the whole nine. The problem was the fact that she didn’t love him at all. She was IN LOVE with the IDEA of being married and the fancy ring, wedding, etc. In fact, this trifling chick told me that she was going to step out on old boy right off the top. She got married to the dude with cash in a lavish, extravagant ceremony (to the tune of somewhere around $30, 000) where she of course, was the star, in June. She cheated on him with the dude she told me about in July and she was divorced in August! Now here she is, foul as Hell wondering why life was treating her so bad! (I told her ‘Cause you foul! You do dirt, you get dirt!’) The truth is men and women are EQUALLY to blame for all these issues and we need to spend more time getting out of our own way, less time playing the ‘Blame Game’ and getting together to make this relationship thing work.

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