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And I Will Always Love Whitney.

August 9, 1963 - February 11, 2012. Gone too soon.

Whitney Houston is gone.

I don’t even know how else to start this off. The news that Whitney Houston died at the young age of 48 (!!!!!!) caught me so off guard that when the first person called to tell me, I responded so non-chalantly that I caught myself by surprise. I was just like, “that’s sad.”

It wasn’t because it didn’t matter. It’s because it just didn’t seem real at all. Not Whitney. Micheal? Yeah. We were all saddened and moved but it wasn’t a total surprise to anybody. Whitney was also on some sort of that stuff – and quite famously – and yet it just didn’t seem like she’d pass…so soon (again…48!!!!). We still don’t know what happened but no illegal drugs were found in the room and there were no signs of foul play. It was just…her time.

(Early reports suggest that she may have drowned. That is tragic beyond belief if its true. EDIT: 10AM – Turns out she didn’t drown, but a lethal mix of prescription drugs and alcohol might have killed her long before she had time to drown. There wasn’t enough water in her lungs to suggest she drowned.)

And that’s hard to deal with. I’ve come to grips with the fact that I have no power of when my time on this planet will end. It’s bigger than I am. But the death of larger than life people like Whitney Houston still seems surreal and doesn’t make sense to me. I always felt like she had another comeback in her. Her voice, while not what it used to be, was still leagues better than 98 percent of the population.

That voice. My God. There have been a few people who I’ve felt were given a truly God given gift and Whitney was one of them. Her voice was so strong, so pure, and so beautiful that her heyday was nearly 25 years ago and we are STILL attached to those very songs. Just like Michael. While nobody will ever touch what Michael Jackson did, Whitney was as pretty high up on the short of list of individuals who held that type of superstardom purely for their talents.

I’m a grown ass man and I still sing along to “I’m Every Woman”. And who HASN’T screwed up “Greatest Love of All” at karaoke or in their car. And think, that song is immortal ANYWAY because of Coming To America. And yes, “How Will I Know” if he really loves me. I don’t know…So many songs. So many great moments. And no, my name is not Susan, which could be why people never watch what they say. I really think I could write an entire post based on her songs.

I think, much like Michael, the true test of what Whitney Houston meant to America, and particularly Black America is how much of our experiences she’s tied to. If you grew up in the 80s then Whitney was absolutely apart of your life. I remember the long ass road trips with my Black man from Alabama ass father blasting the I’m Your Baby Tonight album. My father used to ask my mother to put Whitney Houston (and later Mariah Carey) under the Christmas tree for him every year. Every. Year. My daddy wasn’t sh*t.

And don’t even get me started on the Waiting To Exhale soundtrack. I still bump that (real talk). There’s an odd connection we all feel in the Black community (and maybe white artists do too) to our artists, especially the larger than life ones. Maybe it’s because music is the one escape most of us have in a life filled with so much struggle. Artists like Whitney blew the lid off what we could achieve and what was expected and even though she sang pop music, she sang it in a way that wasn’t selling out. You can’t fake a voice like that and there’s no way to sell out with an instrument like that.

Whitney Houston was family. Hell, she still is family. She’s so much family that many of us are ACTUALLY really concerned about Bobbi Kristina…and Bobby Brown. And I’m not even sure Whitney liked him anymore. But this is what happens when family passes. And there’s a certain sadness that will persist for a while. She was an icon. She was a legend. And its hard to believe that she’s gone. But she’s one of those that will live forever. She has no choice. She made too much of an impact while she was here. There are very few artists today who aren’t influenced by her.

Plus, she has one of the most iconic “big leagues” of all time in her remake of “I Will Always Love You”. It’s a perfect rendition. With a perfect voice.

And yes, the Whitney tribute was short. And yes, we all wanted more. Did Whitney get shortchanged? Possibly.

But that’s second to the fact that the voice is gone.

I’m all over the place here, so I’ll just end this here:

Whitney, I wish to you joy, and happiness…but above all this, I wish you love.

We love you. And miss you. RIP.

-VSB P

Damon Young

Panama Jackson is pretty fly for a light guy. When he's not saving humanity with his words or making music with his mouth, you can find him at your mama's mama's house drinking her fine liquors. He believes the children are our future and is waiting to find out if he is the 2nd most interesting man in the world.

  • CL

    Waiting to Exhale still bumped in my car on the regular! This post was great. She felt like family…she was family. Their are moments in my life that I can tie to her music. She was an icon. Made a mark across multiple generations. Even when she had her problems she was family and we all wanted for things to get better for her. When I saw her Oprah interview and she put out her last CD it wasn’t her best but I know I was hoping that she was truly happy. Such a loss.

  • dd

    This was such a sweet tribute, thank you for honoring her memory. RIP Whitney

  • http://vanityinperil.com Vanity in Peril

    I honestly feel like one of those people who I callously used to roll my eyes at b/c I did cry about it and felt sick. A close friend of mine passed away last week and this month… this year… with Don C passing, Etta James. I just don’t know what else to say. Nice post and thank you.

    • A Woman’s Eyes

      I’m sorry for your loss.

      • http://vanityinperil.com Vanity in Peril

        Thank you for your kindness. ♥

    • http://www.awordorthree.com Crystal Marie

      !!! I never understood why people took celebrity deaths so personal until today.

  • Adrienne

    Beautiful!

    • rissercize

      +1. You pretty much captured it, Panama.

  • HowManyMics?

    She was ours. When she was going through those rough times, we cracked jokes but in a family type way. We knew she was special and still loved her. While the mainstream ridiculed her and didn’t care. She will be missed and is truly appreciated. This is too surreal and too much. RIP

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M5FR1LGsT7E TheAnti-Cool

    My first response to hearing of Whitney’s death was “What?!” and I’m still in disbelief. It’s not that same as it was with Micheal, but it’s close.

    PJ has said everything I would want to say. RIP Whitney. You and your amazing voice will be missed.

  • http://ccooper929.wordpress.com/ Chad C.

    and the church says, AMEN!!! Great post, Panama

    Rick James (1948-2004) – “Fire and Desire”
    Luther Vandross (1951-2005) – “Here and Now”
    Gerald Levert (1966-2006) – “Baby Hold On To Me”
    James Brown (1933-2006) – “I Feel Good”
    Michael Jackson (1958-2009) – “Thriller”
    Teddy Pendergrass (1950-2010) – “Turn Off The Lights”
    Nick Ashford (1941-2011) – “Solid”
    Heavy D (1967-2011) – “Big Daddy”
    Etta James (1938-2012) – “At Last”
    Whitney Houston (1963-2012) – “I Will Always Love You”
    Don Cornelius (1936-2012)
    ……….People who brought us Love, Peace, and Soouuuuuuullll!!!

    p.s. epic fail by Grammys person(s) making the in memorial for not having a pic/mentioning Vesta Williams, Nick Ashford, Etta James & Don Cornelius. thank you ll cool j & Questlove for at least shoutin’ them out.

    • Captain Morgan

      They had Ashford for a sec at the beginning, but they sure did forget everyone else. Etta at least got a song, but they could have still included her.

      • http://ccooper929.wordpress.com/ Chad C.

        I’m glad they sung a song. However, being a part of the in memorial is sort of like a historical record. when this is played back in the future, no one will remember LL Cool J’s shout out. they’re gonna go by that slide show. Epic fail staff members.

        • http://iamyourpeople.com/ I Am Your People

          I just thought it was ironic that Don Cornelius only got a mention right before Quest and LL Cool j introduced a bunch of Black people…doing techno

          • Mo-VSS

            For shame. I’m sure Don C was rolling in his grave at that mess.

          • http://ccooper929.wordpress.com/ Chad C.

            that was some messed up bull shiggity. disco and techno didn’t mesh well w/ Soul Train

    • LuckBALady

      Nick Ashford was included.

      • http://ccooper929.wordpress.com/ Chad C.

        oops my bad. thanks for the correction

        • LuckBALady

          Anytime:)
          IMHO, there should have been a tribute to him. ALL the music he and Valerie Simpson gave this world???? (I’m showing my age.)

          • http://ccooper929.wordpress.com/ Chad C.

            great point. no need to be ashamed of your age. You should never forget the great songwriters. I’m an old soul when it comes to music. I’m just a pup (23yrs) but I appreciate great artists who are dedicated to their craft. I thankful for older parents who have a great music collection. I feel sorry for kids (& some adults) who are growing up w/ this one-hit-wonder stuff. it’s like eating candy for and nothing nutritional and good for you.

      • Mo-VSS

        Solid as a rock, Ashford and Simpson, is perfection. Love that song.

    • Latonya

      Jennifer Hudson did a good job pay tribute to Whitney!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M5FR1LGsT7E TheAnti-Cool

      I have all these songs in my music files except for “At Last”. I need to listen to them now.

    • http://fourpageletter.wordpress.com keisha brown

      i’d like to petition that someone (good) do an update of Nightshift.
      because there are surely sweet sounds.. coming down.. :(

      • Nikki

        Nightshift. ..now I’m really going to cry.

    • Lindsay79

      I agree! And although she ain’t brown they did not put a pic up of Tina Marie which should have been mentioned.

      • http://ccooper929.wordpress.com/ Chad C.

        yeah, how could I have forgotten about Lady T. good point. she isn’t brown but she was blessed by God w/ a soulful voice and knew how to get down

  • Daddy’s Girl

    I still haven’t really accepted that she is gone. We are losing so many icons, it seems every month another one is gone. She left us the very best part of herself; her music. It will live on though she is no longer with us.

    • Deeds

      It does seem like we’re losing so many musical icons. All the greats are passing.

  • Tx10inch

    Don’t forget the best rendention of the Star Stangled Banner EVER…..EVER!! I’ve only truly mourned over one celebrity death…Aliyah. This hurts just as bad.

    • Tx10inch

      **Star Spangled Banner.

      Typin too fast.

    • Mo-VSS

      Aaliyah’s death hit me extremely hard because she was the same age as me when she passed. I had never personally known anyone my age who passed on and that right there did something to me. I realized that even in my young age, I could go at any time.

    • http://www.styleillusions.com WIP

      “Don’t forget the best rendention of the Star Stangled Banner EVER…..EVER!!”

      Yes, her rendition was the standard every artist tried to live up to when they performed it. I haven’t heard that many performances of the song, as I don’t watch that many sporting events, but the only one I’ve heard perform it as well IMO is Yolanda Adams.

    • http://fourpageletter.wordpress.com keisha brown

      listen.
      i am not american, but i remember being teary-eyed when i watched that with my family.
      i’d also like to move that all future SB anthems just be her playing on the jumbo screen.

      • https://twitter.com/#!/IluminatiNYC Todd

        Motion is sustained. Any objections?

        • Tiffany

          Not a Damn one!

        • SunaoButterfly

          Nay!

          • http://twitter.com/nikkib1920 Capricorn

            I am listening to Why Does It Hurt So Bad right now, trying not to cry.

            It just plain hurts.

            We love you, Whitney and will continue to pray for your baby, Bobbi Kristina.

    • http://www.twitter.com/IntnseRndmnss Alana

      I was actually going to stay in the background on this post, but I saw this comment as I was typing in a URL…UMMMM, I’m not the most patriotic person in these here states, HOWEVER, Whitney’s star spangled banner was the epitome of patriotism in a song. It was how the star spangled banner was meant to be sung when the lyrics were dreamed of, the notes she sang, the lines, the pauses, Whitney made folks who aren’t patriotic, want to be patriotic so that they could feel even more chills when they heard her sing this song. It was flawless!

    • http://mommasboyblog.com lossidele

      Not only was it the best rendition of the Star-Spangled Banner EVER, but Whitney was so gangsta (for lack of a better adjective) that she performed it in a track suit and a pair of Nikes!

      • A Woman’s Eyes

        Yes!

  • LuckBALady

    Beautiful post. Thank you for putting into words what I could not.

    As one who sang with all my heart (with my 5th grade classmates) “Greatest Love of All”, I do not think Ms. Houston was shortchanged by a short tribute. Her talent should not be desecrated by lesser talents trying to out scream each other.