Comments on: All By My Se-eee-eelf: 5 Signs That You’re Dating Somebody Who Isn’t Dating You. http://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you Wed, 16 May 2012 23:47:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Dalovelyonehttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-190197 Dalovelyone Wed, 11 Aug 2010 12:39:41 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-190197 What if he says you're his girl but he's always getting textessages from his girl "friends" at 4 am and telling you he loves you after 3 weeks but never texts or calls you unless you text or call him first... Oh and only sees u at night... Smh.... I should break up with him... What if he says you’re his girl but he’s always getting textessages from his girl “friends” at 4 am and telling you he loves you after 3 weeks but never texts or calls you unless you text or call him first… Oh and only sees u at night… Smh…. I should break up with him…

]]> By: Cherrellhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-159526 Cherrell Tue, 06 Apr 2010 19:36:31 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-159526 @Tunde, Not so! A guy, when lovin' a chick, will care about every single one of these, you crazy! lol @Tunde, Not so! A guy, when lovin’ a chick, will care about every single one of these, you crazy! lol

]]> By: Cherrellhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-159518 Cherrell Tue, 06 Apr 2010 19:13:00 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-159518 @luvtheshoes, ahhh I wasn't going to say anything but I've done the on/off thing for 2yrs. I kinda knew, but he was borderline with making me feel existant, I did meet his cousin, lol. That's one of a few pros vs. too many cons. I know you had a feeling all the while but chose to hope a little bit more. For me, it was them dog on holidays over the time too, lol. I can laugh about it now, but I know some red flags for a lifetime!!! @luvtheshoes, ahhh I wasn’t going to say anything but I’ve done the on/off thing for 2yrs. I kinda knew, but he was borderline with making me feel existant, I did meet his cousin, lol. That’s one of a few pros vs. too many cons. I know you had a feeling all the while but chose to hope a little bit more. For me, it was them dog on holidays over the time too, lol. I can laugh about it now, but I know some red flags for a lifetime!!!

]]> By: Foxhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-149373 Fox Sat, 06 Feb 2010 06:24:35 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-149373 Its still very early days and he's just not doing enough chasing. So you think, as a woman, not to appear to "uptight" and to show that I AM INTERESTED, let me loosen up a little bit and open up so he can read that im also keen for this. You initiate contact now and again, call, sms, suggest dates. All good an well, only on the day the "going out" is meant to happen brother doesnt say a word and you follow up a few hours just before you are due to meet - note a few hours before and not first thing in the morning to avoid appearing overly keen! So when you do call, those few hours before you are due to meet, he sudenly has something...WHY did you not say so earlier and when were you going to say so if i didn't follow up, or best still, as most brothers do, was he just not going to pitch and pull amnesia the following day! All good and well, these things do happen, but the least you would expect is for the brother to follow up or propose an alternative date at a later stage, without me having to remind him. Bad behaviour and manners i think and totally inexcusible. You wouldnt do it to friends or colleagues so why should I put up with it! Its still very early days and he’s just not doing enough chasing. So you think, as a woman, not to appear to “uptight” and to show that I AM INTERESTED, let me loosen up a little bit and open up so he can read that im also keen for this. You initiate contact now and again, call, sms, suggest dates. All good an well, only on the day the “going out” is meant to happen brother doesnt say a word and you follow up a few hours just before you are due to meet – note a few hours before and not first thing in the morning to avoid appearing overly keen! So when you do call, those few hours before you are due to meet, he sudenly has something…WHY did you not say so earlier and when were you going to say so if i didn’t follow up, or best still, as most brothers do, was he just not going to pitch and pull amnesia the following day! All good and well, these things do happen, but the least you would expect is for the brother to follow up or propose an alternative date at a later stage, without me having to remind him. Bad behaviour and manners i think and totally inexcusible. You wouldnt do it to friends or colleagues so why should I put up with it!

]]> By: Mirandizehttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-130973 Mirandize Mon, 26 Oct 2009 17:02:04 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-130973 @Leila, Or you get a guy that doesn't call/text you on your birthday because for some odd reason:1. he just up and forgot [ but you and father has the same birthday]2. his phone got shut off, for that one day only and he had no way to call/text [I had a guy give this excuse before]3. he thought it was on the 26th, instead of the 6th... [I mean, Really??]But I hate guys that don't even consider your birthday and I just went out and bought you that new Madden game for your birthday that you absolutely had to have. But I will get a forwarded text message on New Years or Columbus Day [ I was like "Really?? Columbus Day??"] but not even on the 6th, instead of the 26th.Something has got to give... @Leila, Or you get a guy that doesn’t call/text you on your birthday because for some odd reason:

1. he just up and forgot [ but you and father has the same birthday]

2. his phone got shut off, for that one day only and he had no way to call/text [I had a guy give this excuse before]

3. he thought it was on the 26th, instead of the 6th… [I mean, Really??]

But I hate guys that don’t even consider your birthday and I just went out and bought you that new Madden game for your birthday that you absolutely had to have. But I will get a forwarded text message on New Years or Columbus Day [ I was like "Really?? Columbus Day??"] but not even on the 6th, instead of the 26th.

Something has got to give…

]]> By: SPhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-129481 SP Sun, 18 Oct 2009 17:53:07 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-129481 Why is it that ALL the respondeees on VSB have ISSSSUESS... coincidentally, they all have the issues that you blog about... hmmm Why is it that ALL the respondeees on VSB have ISSSSUESS… coincidentally, they all have the issues that you blog about… hmmm

]]> By: Fireflyhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-129479 Firefly Sun, 18 Oct 2009 06:37:18 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-129479 @OneChele,Yeah, I caught myself doing the 'looking everywhere else' thing the other day. Dude is sweet and I wasn't doing it on purpose, but yep...he may be dating me but I sure ain't dating him.One question though...how the hell are we supposed to break up with people we aren't dating?! @OneChele,

Yeah, I caught myself doing the ‘looking everywhere else’ thing the other day. Dude is sweet and I wasn’t doing it on purpose, but yep…he may be dating me but I sure ain’t dating him.

One question though…how the hell are we supposed to break up with people we aren’t dating?!

]]> By: Blue Skieshttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-129471 Blue Skies Sat, 17 Oct 2009 13:10:45 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-129471 Does it still count as dating yourself if you never slept with the person and you only kissed them isn't the whole point of side pieces is to get some pieces on the side? I know I could've been this girl but avoided it because I never slept with him. So. Ha! At least I got some free meals and movies outta him. Stupid bish. Does it still count as dating yourself if you never slept with the person and you only kissed them isn’t the whole point of side pieces is to get some pieces on the side? I know I could’ve been this girl but avoided it because I never slept with him. So. Ha! At least I got some free meals and movies outta him. Stupid bish.

]]> By: Big Louhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-129470 Big Lou Sat, 17 Oct 2009 00:21:54 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-129470 @Panama Jackson, and not that regular begrudging dome... It oughtta be that 'I'ma do this right since it's your birthday' dome. @Panama Jackson, and not that regular begrudging dome… It oughtta be that ‘I’ma do this right since it’s your birthday’ dome.

]]> By: Daydreamerhttp://verysmartbrothas.com/all-by-my-self-6-signs-that-youre-dating-somebody-who-isnt-dating-you/#comment-129466 Daydreamer Fri, 16 Oct 2009 19:32:36 +0000 http://www.verysmartbrothas.com/?p=2820#comment-129466 Even though I got one this morning....I HATE that stupid lol :-) song! #fail......But other than that thanks for the reminders. Even though I got one this morning….I HATE that stupid lol :-) song! #fail……But other than that thanks for the reminders.

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