Comments on: A Piece of Bedroom Furniture.

By: RedBeanzNRice

RedBeanzNRice — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 11:24:58 +0000

I love Cali like I love women – 2Pac (To Live and Die in LA)
The Cupid Shuffle – Cupid
I can�t be your lover – Slick Rick/Doug E. Fresh (La Di Da Di)

Well there’s 3 – at least I think so. Can I get a Hi-3?

By: RunGirl.

RunGirl. — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 20:56:06 +0000

I just spent 35 min of my life reading these comments. Time well spent.

“eewwww not that white stuff…” NaS, Black Girl Lost

By: Monica

Monica — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 15:02:36 +0000

Sex Not Love is a concept

It is the ability to have sex without falling in love; can apply to one night stands, f*ck buddies, or anyone else one might sleep with.

I developed this concept after many days of explaining to women that does A) every sex partner is not a potential life partner B) it is possible to have sex with no emotional attachment (and most sex is probably of this variety, whether she knows it or not) C) sex with someone on a regular or semi-regular basis means ONLY that you are having a sexual relationship (nothing more)

By: K.I.M.

K.I.M. — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 14:44:15 +0000

I suppose I was surprised because there is such a stigma in the black community, especially amongst, black women in regards to sexuality.

Kind of like how I know women over 25 who have never given head? Then turn around and wonder why dude’s were going to ‘Becky’ back in college to get broke-off.

Yes we are for sure having it sex…whether it be one night stands or several night stands…and “we’re” having it unprotected as evidenced by STD and ‘Suprise Pregnancies.’

By: genius khan

genius khan — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 14:05:40 +0000

K.I.T retorts:

“why don�t you first explain whether or not you agree (because you really didn�t say)”

i’m afraid to tell u my (1 night stand stories) for fear that you and other women reading this blog may get mad. LMBAO! last thing i want to do is make a woman mad…

…and you’d have to ask the women here how “reluctant” they are to share their 1 night stand stories although i see a few of them were not worried about being “well thought of.”

Treal i do like the way u spelled my namesakes name right. that’s kinda sexy nicca. i almost want to hear u moan, i mean say it. did u know the g and the h are pronounced more like our j? (jane-gis) who cares right?

most of my commentary here is OPED and not professionally related however i have been accused on several ocassions of setting up a (therapists) practice here. u my friend have illuded to ur work so i thought maybe u were writing froma professional standpoint.

ladies i think well of u regardless of what u share in this forum. its informative and entertaining. please forgive me if i’m too pie to share sometime.

By: Kit (Keep It Trill)

Kit (Keep It Trill) — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 12:08:19 +0000

Ghengis, before I even think of blowing a bunch of time writing the whys and wherefores with links, why don’t you first explain whether or not you agree (because you really didn’t say), and what your personal observation and experience has been, along with your supporting links. Don’t forget to add the historical, cultural and religious perspective.

As you said, “heh, heh, heh (inhales) whoooooo! this is gonna be good��”

Go for it, tiger.

By: Don Giovanni

Don Giovanni — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 05:07:58 +0000

ok, at one point in time, i was deemed the king of one-night stands and extremely short-term relationships!! it wasn’t by design, just the fact that i loved to travel and enjoy the company of whichever beautiful woman was nearest to me at the time!! my recent trip to jamaica gave me a week full of fun and i enjoyed each of them!! i always give them my aliases, never a number and if need be, the business cards with the fake name and number and the former address in L.A. so even if they come looking for me, they will never find me!! i have never done my place or theirs, mainly hotels or friends places (have a manual coupe, so my car is out of the question)!! never kiss them because i don’t know where their mouths have been nor do i call their names in the middle of the act, mainly because in my old age, i just can’t remember trivial things like that (but, unfortunately, that has transcended over into regular relationships as well)!! nor do they see me in the morning because i am usually up and gone 45 mins to an hour afterwards!! hopefully they don’t mind because i don’t do cheap motels and the room is always paid for!! i’m not stiffing them!! it was funny how the staff at the RIU in Negril figured me out, because i would ask for a different room each morning around 5:45!! i know, i know!! bad Don!! bad DON!!! but i always have my hoe-bag packed and ready for whatever might happen!! it’s definitely a must!!

By: Don Giovanni

Don Giovanni — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 04:36:38 +0000

now, i must say that is some funny sh*t there!! i think that might be the reason old girl hid my keys, claiming i was too drunk to drive, but she didn’t know i had my spare set on me as well!! to this day, i still wonder if i’m gonna walk out and see her driving off in my car!!

By: I slapped Diddy.

I slapped Diddy. — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 03:20:46 +0000

G.K. dude you’re wildn. i’m laughing but ‘you’re an a-hole. I haven’t laughed this hard since I slapped Diddy.

By: genius khan

genius khan — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 02:26:20 +0000

notes from a therapist a.k.a Kit (Keep It Trill):

“A lot of the men won�t tell �cause the ladies will get mad. The ladies who have done it may be reluctant in commenting because everyone wants to be well-thought of.”

men wont tell about their 1 nite stands here because we don’t want to make women mad.

really? is this a personal opinion or something u stake ur professional reputation on?

heh, heh, heh (inhales) whoooooooo!

…and women refrain from exposing their 1 nite stands here because they wish to be well thought of.

interesting contrasts in motivations between the vsb men and women surrounding the issue. (1 nite stands)

please share with me the inductive or deductive reasoning u used to come to this conlusion. (or whatever reasoning)

heh, heh, heh (inhales) whoooooo!

this is gonna be good……